krissy1989f Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 This is SO hard. and it makes it even harder that he doesn't understand what I am going through. Me and this guy had been talking for about 6 months, strictly only hanging out, but we were also intimate....it was not labeled and there was no committment and i think he liked that and i never pushed for more even though i wanted more. I ended up sleeping with someone else one drunken night, it was an awful mistake and i am ashamed but i did learn from it. Anyways, after i told him what i did we have never been the same...i made sure to ask him if we were going anywhere before i "confessed" and he said no....and then of course after i told him we definately werent going anywhere in his eyes....part of me feels like if i didnt do what i did maybe we would of turned into something....we have hung out since but i feel he is just using me and still doesnt want anything so i told him we need to stop all communication and hanging out. ITS KILLING ME. i miss him so much, idk if its because im lonely of if im feeling awful about myself. I dont know what to do or say to him just to give myself some peace. He is a good guy and i feel like i hurt him, even though we werent in a relationship....i would be mad if he did that to me though.....how do i move on....is there any chance maybe he would ever change his mind?
eddiesay Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Seems as though he was not as into you as you were into him...and now that he sees that you were able to have someone else, using that as an excuse to distance himself even more.
Author krissy1989f Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 you are probably right....but he really did seem to like me...and even "came back" ...its just hard...but yes...ive already thought that but im still young and naive i guess and feel like he might change...
Author krissy1989f Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 i agree! I am a good person and what i did was way out of character for me....so i just cant seem to blame myself for all of this....when in reality it'd probably be the same even if i was the dumb girl who sat and waited for him to have time for me....i guess im just having a "weak day" today and its taking everything in me to not text him!
eddiesay Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 You can text me instead. I can always use someone to talk with
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