kaylan Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 I can't believe we are rehashing this Kaylan. I will be 40 in a few months, my kids are 13 and 16, and I like men in their 20's. I am trying to be open to a larger age group, but when I have a date like that, it makes me just want to grab some young guy....and you can fill in the blanks. Ooo and I give myself a huge pat on the back for getting through the whole date and not mentioning once about my love of younger men and not talking in any detail about my friendships with younger men. And I didn't talk about gaming either. (As an aside, I have joked before I guess mostly with male friends, but possibly on here, and how it seems guys just assume i am an easy party girl from my looks. Well on the date, when my obvious intelligence shone though, he actually apologised for misjudging me, could it be that he too had assumed I was an easy party girl?) Why cant you believe you are rehashing this? I dont recall your personal history, and many people reading this thread might not either...so whats the harm in providing more details for some of us to get a better understanding of the situation. I usually mention my age and what not when I make threads or post, just so people dont have to ask me that. I figure not everyone will catch or remember everything I say about myself here. Anyways, you shouldnt allow your date with this guy to make you think hes anything indicative of the behavior of most older men. The dude was lame, but it was what it was. Im sure theres plenty of suitable guys your age to date, so dont let this one dork spoil their reputation. And I wouldnt say just your looks would make a guy think you are easy. If you are dressing a certain way, than yes...but if we are just talking about your face and body, guys wont peg someone as a party person off of just that. Id say the younger guys might peg you as an easy party girl based on their own wants from you. Guys my age will only generally only want an older woman for a good time and would prefer she be easy since hes not looking for anything serious. So Id say you are having dudes project their expectations onto you.
Author Titania22 Posted April 2, 2012 Author Posted April 2, 2012 Why cant you believe you are rehashing this? I'm sorry Kaylan, I thought I was notorious on here for my love of much younger men. I guess I am not so memorable. Thanks for keeping my ego in check.
fucpcg Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 And his age has WHAT to do with the date? If your date was dull, it wasn't because of his age, it was because of the person. 1
Feelsgoodman Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 I'm not surprised that your daughter is weirded out by the fact that you date guys who are closer to her age than they are to yours. I'd be weirded out too if I were her...
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