capitald Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 I just want to say that after a very hard day I would like to say that I love all of you loveshack people. Thank you for the support and I hope that my support for you has worked out well in all or most cases. Remember in the end its not who you love but who loves you. I have had a falling out with many people here and many of them I made up with in the end. I have had people that have been jealous, hateful, spiteful, loving, sincere, genuine, caring clever and fun. Believe me in your own ways I appreciate you all. Viva the Internet self-help revolution!!! I am so glad I found this place and with the help of everyone here tried to find a place here and make it my own. I think I am the voice of prudence most of the time, if not I am the voice of much needed contraversy and free thinking toward radical solutions. I am sorry for the people I have offended with my rudeness. That is just pure dumbness. In any case, life is all about love and politics and once you get home from the politics, well there it is LOVE, even if your love is talking about politics big or small. So this is my Gettysburg address to one and all. Feel free to give me compliments, feel free to criticize me, say what you will, I will still love you all, ever and anon. You are my people and you have helped me tremendously, more than anyone has ever helped me before in my life. I owe you a life debt. Thank you for keeping the word ideal in relationships and always striving for that no matter what the cost is. That just shows that you are wise and are the source of all my wisdom and I am forever grateful. I am not kissing ass, I am just telling it like it is. You all are the best people that I have ever met and you DESERVE happiness and no substitutes. Thank you for pointing out the bs in my opinions and telling me when I was wrong. You kept me honest. You helped me grow and for that, well I am sincerely and forever in debt to you. I want to thank you all. There is not much else to say. I owe you the world and hopefully, I just may continue to help bring that to you. Just one more note: Whenever you get down, remember there is someone out there that loves you and always will. Find that One!
sportsloving Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 Nice post D, but may I ask if you have been drinking??
johan Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 Just one more note: Whenever you get down, remember there is someone out there that loves you and always will. Find that One! You mean it isn't you? When I was reading your post, I thought my search was over (especially at the "ever and anon" part). Then you ended with "find that one". You're a damn tease is what you are.
Author capitald Posted June 16, 2004 Author Posted June 16, 2004 I don't like guys. No, I was dead sober. Teasing can be fun once in a while.
sportsloving Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Originally posted by capitald I don't like guys. No, I was dead sober. Teasing can be fun once in a while. It is a good thing you have a sense of humor CapitalD. We love you too ... well, in ways of course. Take care.
sportsloving Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 No fear, no foul, no harm Actually ya know we care about you ... who else would keep us in line such as yourself?
Author capitald Posted June 16, 2004 Author Posted June 16, 2004 God only knows. I am glad to be of service.
sportsloving Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 It is a very good thing there is no charge for that service
Author capitald Posted June 16, 2004 Author Posted June 16, 2004 Yes because most people would not be able to afford it and it would be only for the rich.
sportsloving Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 **cough cough** Yes, yes that is why it is a good thing it is free
Author capitald Posted June 16, 2004 Author Posted June 16, 2004 sportsloving you should just come up to NY and put a ring on my finger because you are so in love with me, you are so in denial.
sportsloving Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Originally posted by capitald sportsloving you should just come up to NY and put a ring on my finger because you are so in love with me, you are so in denial. Sigh~ you found me out. I am deeply in love with you, have been since the first insult against women and it steadily grew deeper with the little comment about women not being able to have "real" conversations. Tell me please, what gave it away? I would give you a ring, but there are some traditions that I rather follow, hence it should be you giving me the ring (and no, not one through the nose).
CurlyIam Posted June 16, 2004 Posted June 16, 2004 Oh, guys, you make me cry! It is sooo good to see a happy couple finally together! Let us know the details, once you've decided who gives who a ring, ok? You naughty, who would have said? Curly P.S. Thinkalot is having her wedding in Fiji...
Author capitald Posted June 17, 2004 Author Posted June 17, 2004 I never said all women and I didn't mean you eventhough you can be rather superficial at times. Ah, me and you wouldn't make a good match, you like sports (competition) too much and in the end we would just end up fighting all of the time. I plan to retire from that life early and live the serene life of the mind. Repartee is too much for me at times. Its just not really in me, I am too nice for that.
sportsloving Posted June 17, 2004 Posted June 17, 2004 and I didn't mean you eventhough you can be rather superficial at times. Hmmm, coming from you, that is a compliment ... thank you. Ah, me and you wouldn't make a good match, you like sports (competition) too much and in the end we would just end up fighting all of the time. I plan to retire from that life early and live the serene life of the mind. Repartee is too much for me at times. Its just not really in me, I am too nice for that. I could guarantee there would be many fights and arguements, and they wouldn't have anything to do with sports I do admit that you and I would make an "awkward" couple ... hence the reason I would never try. You take a certain kind of woman whom I could never be. But I do wish you the bestest of luck in finding her
Author capitald Posted June 17, 2004 Author Posted June 17, 2004 No your way too easy going, I couldn't take that. I am looking for someone slightly different then my mother because she really drives my father crazy at times. Hell she drives me crazy at times. Shes kind of like you. She is too feisty in some ways and too lax in some ways. I need a dedicated thinker I suppose, someone that can keep up with all the thoughts I have and respond in due fashion. I am a bit too heady for you, so you take all of my words wrong. That gets really irritating to a point. I find it incredibly difficult to find someone on my level and I suppose I never will but close enough is fine with me. I do not create for people incredibly high standards that they cannot reach. I like to be an idealist who also can be practical when life calls for it. P.S. In any case, thank you for your kind words.
shamen Posted June 18, 2004 Posted June 18, 2004 Oh, Capitald, "I am too heady for you," you poor child. Must you say something not so nice in your beautiful post? "I find it incredibly difficult to find someone on my level," hmmm... I'm just curious as to where you are going with this. Must you say something so judgemental in your beautiful (original) post? I thought your first post was sweet, assuming that you meant it in sincerity. Which I thought you did, until I read further.
Author capitald Posted June 18, 2004 Author Posted June 18, 2004 I did in fact mean it to be sweet but I should have been more specfic on what I expected out of it. I wanted to make it a little thread were everyone could say how much good will, good cheer and/or happiness and appreciation they have for the people at loveshack. Perhaps I should have made that more explicit. Instead I ended up with sportsloving ragging on me until I finally had to say something, which in all honesty was exactly the opposite direction I wanted to go. In any case I was trying to be sweet but it didn't work out. That just shows you about life. When I was in Louisiana there was this diner that I liked to go to and the diner had all these signs with these sayings and one of them was, "the road to ruin is paved with good intentions", meaning it doesn't ONLY matter how you or I want things to turn out, we don't create our story, we just play one part in it.
moimeme Posted June 19, 2004 Posted June 19, 2004 Here's a clue: when you start touting your own 'virtues', it ceases to be sweet.
shamen Posted June 19, 2004 Posted June 19, 2004 OK... let's try to move this thread into a happy one! I too love this site! I feel very lucky that I found it. It's definitely helping me to get through a very trying period of my life.
CurlyIam Posted June 19, 2004 Posted June 19, 2004 I am also amazed at this site! I have never been on a forum, before! And to top it all, thanks to moimeme's link tonight I discovered I may have ADD. I thought it was depression! I cannot tell you the relief I feel! and gratitude!
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