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Well it's a beautiful morning here in northeast PA. Warm sunshine and a clear blue sky. This type of weather sure puts me in a better mood. :cool:

 

Hope you all are having a good start to the day as well. I know that thoughts of "the happy times with the ex" will probably plague me tonight, as they have every night, but here's hoping that it's not too bad.

 

Group hug! :D

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it is very rainy over here in Washington, can't see the sun for the clouds.:)

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Jenn! Sorry to hear of the dreary day. I think it may be an opportunity for you to be your own sunshine... who knows how many people will be warmed by your smile throughout the day? :)

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Good luck with your days all of you. I hope you are all smiley and happy.

 

I don't know why but I've been stuck for the past hour thinking about my ex's past that she lied to me about, it all just came back rushing to me, it hurt me bad a few years ago and it hurts now...why the hell do I miss her?

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Well it's been about 1 month since the love of my life left me to "figure out who she was". I have had no contact with her for 3 weeks. It has been painful, but as I look back, I can definitely see that my days have gotten better, although very slowly. Progress is progress though, right? :)

 

Anyway, I wanted to drop by because I just got a message from her out of the blue and I hope you can advise me if I should remain friendly and respond or just ignore her completely. I know, the overwhelming answer will be "ignore!" but I'm asking anyway. Maybe some girls can offer their insight as to why she even wrote me. Here's her message from earlier today:

 

I hope you had a really great birthday. Sorry I couldn't be there.

I think about you a lot and I miss you. I'm just afraid to come back now because of all the hurt I caused you. I don't want to hurt you anymore. I hope everything is going well.

 

Yes our birthdays are only about 3 weeks apart if you've read the previous posts. That's made the days somewhat more hurtful, but what can ya do...

 

So that's it. I'm just looking for some encouragement I guess. :(

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Well it's been about 1 month since the love of my life left me to "figure out who she was". I have had no contact with her for 3 weeks. It has been painful, but as I look back, I can definitely see that my days have gotten better, although very slowly. Progress is progress though, right? :)

 

Anyway, I wanted to drop by because I just got a message from her out of the blue and I hope you can advise me if I should remain friendly and respond or just ignore her completely. I know, the overwhelming answer will be "ignore!" but I'm asking anyway. Maybe some girls can offer their insight as to why she even wrote me. Here's her message from earlier today:

 

I hope you had a really great birthday. Sorry I couldn't be there.

I think about you a lot and I miss you. I'm just afraid to come back now because of all the hurt I caused you. I don't want to hurt you anymore. I hope everything is going well.

 

Yes our birthdays are only about 3 weeks apart if you've read the previous posts. That's made the days somewhat more hurtful, but what can ya do...

 

So that's it. I'm just looking for some encouragement I guess. :(

 

Do you want her back? Is there hope for you two lovebirds?

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I know how you feel. It's been nearly a week since I last saw him and I have been doing fine and last night I cried and cried and cried. It took me by surprise why I suddenly burst into tears but I felt so much better after I had a cry. I have decided to get a phoenix tattoo to mark a ****ty time in my life, but how I was reborn and came out stronger for it. Everytime I look at it from now on, I will be reminded that yes life has some rock bottom lows, but I have amazing friends and I have amazing inner strength that can get me through them days to make me a beautiful phoenix again :)

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