justsomebody Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 If you are interested in someone, let's say after two or three months of conversation, would you ask about his/her birthday? I have been cooresponding to this person two or three times a week for over a year. His birthday came, I sent him a greeting. But he never asked about mine. This leds me to think that he is not that much into me eventhough he claims that I am his best friend, his confidant. Is it a man thing not to ask for birthday?
dasein Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Who knows with a penpal type arrangement? Have you made any steps towards meeting in person?
Author justsomebody Posted March 31, 2012 Author Posted March 31, 2012 Why? What does penpal style or meeting in person have anything to do with asking birthday? Please explain your thoughts.
dasein Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Because it's very difficult to get to know someone truly without face to face and without seeing their lives, how they live, what they do, as opposed to what they say as a penpal. He may simply not care about birthdays, or not want to go past a certain level of closeness with those he hasn't met in person.
Author justsomebody Posted April 3, 2012 Author Posted April 3, 2012 That makes sense to me. Thank you.
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