reiszvalkyrie Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 (edited) Yo, all. I have been in long distance relationship for almost two years now... I met this person in 9th grade but then I moved, and then in 11th grade I contacted on the internet, became better friends, liked, then loved. Now I am in the end of my 12th grade( finally ... ). We only got to meet for one week last summer. That was the only time we saw each other (before it was in 9th grade). Yeah, that's a long time considering most people usually, you know, meet their love more than once a year, and more than 7 days. Anyways we make very good friends. We both believe in saving each other for marriage, so no kind of intercourse or whatever. This was the first person I had strong feelings for too. We decided that they will come here for college. Signed them up and everything. My parents agreed to let them live in the house too. But now, yesterday they decided they aren't ready for college and will stay home longer. Well, I respect their opinion, because my love is having it better over where they live then here. If they came here, it would definitely be difficult.( I also don't think their parents appreciate me either, and really don't want their child to go off in the world yet... ) My love was thinking staying for another two years, (I'm going to community college first), or the end of college as a whole (4 years.) They would visit as much as possible ... but I just don't know. I don't think I can't wait another two years, to actually live and be with my love. I doubt they will visit many times. Me visiting? That's a joke because my family is hanging on to every dollar. Airplane tickets are very expensive. We use webcam, it's good. Lately though, I have not been wondering about my love as much ... I have been thinking and worrying about an issue instead. I won't give details, but it's a cause that I advocate, and I want to help support it. What I realize is that it has been taking my mind. I am not sure if I really am ready for this love... I want to help a cause. I wouldn't mind being best friends of course... but I see this waning now. It's been almost a week since I've been worrying about something else, and my spirit is becoming fiery. Now I'm actually working on it. Not just an idea... If I have to wait another two years... that'll be 4 years in waiting. If I have to wait four years... that'll be 6 years in waiting. I'm a faithful person and don't believe in cheating. But I guess I'm realizing that I want to be more freer and put more energy into causes, solutions, problems of the world. I don't know ... I feel like god is calling me to do something different. Well anyways, thanks for reading! Oh and by the way, a lot of times my love doubts if our relationship would work. I always encourage and they apologize to me. But now ... it makes me wonder. We talk everyday and there are no fights. Very calm people we are. We also have different interests because I love and appreciate art, I draw(want to be an artist), write, you know that kind of stuff, and my love is completely different. Edited March 31, 2012 by reiszvalkyrie
TMichaels Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 We decided that they will come here for college. Signed them up and everything. My parents agreed to let them live in the house too. But now, yesterday they decided they aren't ready for college and will stay home longer. I'm confused. Are you dating twins? Best, TMichaels
creighton0123 Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 I'm confused. Are you dating twins? Best, TMichaels Bahahahahahahaha! I thought the same thing. To the OP: Long distance relationships cost money. Long distance relationships require familial independence. Both of you have neither of those things. I would also suggest that the way you're talking about him might not last well into your typically college, freshmen year. You both have so much growing up to do. Why are you worried about all of this stuff now?
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