IluvAlex33 Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 My boyfriend and i just broke up and im really upset and i have a deep feeling that later on in the year we might get back together. What would you do if u lost someone you loved and u had a chance to get him back,but he dumped you?
uriel Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 Best advice: Follow the no-contact rule. Don't contact him even if you feel like you can't make it through another night. Hold on to your dignity. If he should contact you, make sure it's for something real -- not just a temporary fling or guilt alleviation session. You deserve no less. At first, it's okay to try to understand why he left. Ultimately, however, you need to move to a point where you are focusing on yourself -- making your life into what you want it to be without him in it. Maybe he will regret leaving. But that doesn't mean he's owed free entry back in. You need to be able to trust he's not going to pull this again. He knew how much leaving would hurt you, but he did it anyway. No one should get a free pass on that. -- uriel
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