SomewhatUnsure Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Hello, I've been dating this woman for a while now, we will meet tomorrow for the fifth time. We are in contact for about 6 weeks now, light texting on a daily basis (sometimes just 1-2 messages, but keeping in touch), phone every 2-3 days. She initiated phone calls and also our last meeting. I told her that I liked her, she told me the same and we kissed. Based on some really intense conversations we had I can clearly say that there is already some emotional bond between us. However she didnt reply to my last message. 1 day later I sent another one (yesterday), nothing, even though she was online. Obviously I don't intend to send another message. As I have not set the frame for our meeting I would need to call her, but I'm really unsure whether this would come across as needy or something. I know this all sounds plain stupid and based on the last 6 weeks there should be no reason for me to assume that she will break off the contact completely from 1 day to another but frankly I'm afraid I fell in love with her (a bit^^) so I'm really confused that maybe she met someone else and stuff... Your opinion/advice?
amantis Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Give her time if she likes you she will contact you for sure
musemaj11 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 She met someone better. If she comes back to you, it means it didnt work out with the other guy.
happiness0421 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I would go ahead and call her...just leave a message if she doesn't answer with a date/time/location. Girls like to be chased. If you don't hear back from her? That's the time to assume she's poofed and cut your losses. Sucks if it happens, but it just did to me, so if it does you are not alone!!!!
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