quietGuy13 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 (edited) Some of you tell me i'm stupid cause i just want hot/pretty girls. Uhhhh. well all my coworkers that i had in every job i've had, most of the young guys(my age) had beautiful girlfriends. That's the norm. Most guys want girls who look attractive. So why you guys tell me it's bad, and it's stupid, and i'm being unrealistic and all that. My current coworker where i go, he broght his girlfriend for the first time. Guess what? Super attractive girl wearing a miniskirt, had great awesome legs and body. I just don't get it why many people here say i shouldn't want beautiful girls. Edited March 31, 2012 by quietGuy13
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Do you have a job now? That's good news, what are you doing?
Art_Critic Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 QuietGuy..... Hot and Pretty is relative... Hot to one person is ugly to another..
TripLine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 QuietGuy..... Hot and Pretty is relative... Hot to one person is ugly to another.. Actually in America, if one girl is hot, 9/10 guys will probably find her hot.
Art_Critic Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Actually in America, if one girl is hot, 9/10 guys will probably find her hot. I live in America and don't find that necessarily true...
wwwjd Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 You are not the only one. And there's no reason to worry about it. Ya like what ya like what ya like.
serial muse Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 No reasoned person, IMO at the least, would say desiring good looks in a partner is bad. That's silly. ...and none did. 1
Leigh 87 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Guys get hot girls because: - they are hot themselves - they are average or below average in looks, but have awesome personalities/jobs/money You do not get hot girls, because they are not interested in you. This can be helped, if you improve your personality and make yourself more likable. Also, hit the gym and become fit and healthy looking.
EricaH329 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Guys have unrealistic standards, so they date up. Girls understand the reality of the situation, and tend to date down. *Generally*. Solves this issue. 2
irin Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 there was this guy that i once thought was the hottest thing i had laid my eyes on, all my friends thought he was ugly as hell!
TripLine Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 I live in America and don't find that necessarily true... Post a picture of a girl, odds are, we will agree that she is either hot or not.
Fondue Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Guys have unrealistic standards, so they date up. Girls understand the reality of the situation, and tend to date down. *Generally*. Solves this issue. I think your entire statement is pretty off base, especially the bolded. How many men do you see that are handsome and have a gf who's either a cow, has a terrible personality, or a complete crazy? And like you said, it happens the opposite direction, too. Pretty girls with men who are "below their league." But many women do NOT understand the reality. Soooooooooo many women these days (admittedly, young women) who are on the LOW scale themselves, yet demand attention from the highest tier of men. And when men of their own caliber approach them, they act disgusted. This is mentality is enhanced because these same women open their legs in a whim, men use them, and they feel validated because they got laid by a hot dude. A lot of women, hot and not, eventually settle for a home-ly dude, a family man. That is when they they accept advances from a man below their tier. But no way in hell are they like this from the get-go. 1
Art_Critic Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 hot or not. They already have a webpage for that.. if you want to participate then go, but I'm not going to get into a picture debate over this on LS.. It isn't worth the effort...
TripLine Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 They already have a webpage for that.. if you want to participate then go, but I'm not going to get into a picture debate over this on LS.. It isn't worth the effort... As long as we can both agree that if man think a girl is beautiful, his friends will think the same. Same for ugliness, but lets stick with the positives.
maysj18 Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Nobody wants to be with someone they don't find physically attractive, therefore everyone wants to be with someone "hot or pretty". I do agree about the perspective thing. What's hot to one person can be ugly as hell to someone else. The guy I find to be the hottest on campus doesn't even turn my best friend's head and at the same time I don't find her boyfriend the least bit attractive. Each to their own.
leftfordead2 Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Some of you tell me i'm stupid cause i just want hot/pretty girls. Uhhhh. well all my coworkers that i had in every job i've had, most of the young guys(my age) had beautiful girlfriends. That's the norm. Most guys want girls who look attractive. So why you guys tell me it's bad, and it's stupid, and i'm being unrealistic and all that. My current coworker where i go, he broght his girlfriend for the first time. Guess what? Super attractive girl wearing a miniskirt, had great awesome legs and body. I just don't get it why many people here say i shouldn't want beautiful girls. Have you ever tried to look for girls who are similar to you?
oaks Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 So why you guys tell me it's bad, and it's stupid, and i'm being unrealistic and all that. I agree with the unrealistic part. As for "why", well, you've written many posts describing your shortcomings and things that are going to make it hard for you to get a date of any kind: you aren't a strong speaker; you don't have any social hobbies; you live with your parents at an age where this isn't so common; you play with teddy bears; you struggle with the concept of what is age-appropriate in dating. I could go on. I don't know if you can improve on any of those things.
Dust Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 I've always told you to be wiht girls you find hot/pretty. I'm pretty sure my one friend is mentaly retarded... he has had hot gfs. You just need to act. So go ahead do something instead of always complaining.
mostlyclueless Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Life doesn't owe you a hot girl. Read this: 5 Ways Modern Men Are Trained to Hate Women | Cracked.com
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