After 2 weeks of NC... I actually called and said I MISS U!!!

[justadream]

Reason for breaking up:

 

1. Family issue- both side family doesn't like each other and we both as a middle person find it difficult to cope with each of our parents.

2. Incompatibility- he is more of an extrovert and i am more introvert. Different interest and it's difficult to compromise at times.

3. Aside the above 2, he is currently facing some finances difficulties and in the mid of switching his job.

 

 

The statement from HIM:

 

" Current I am facing a lot of pressure and it's difficult for me to handle everything at one go. I am sorry but priority has to be given to my job as well as settling my financial issue before i can handle anything else"

 

 

 

Story

 

We broke up end of Feb 2012. Beginning of the first 2 week we still keep in touch on and off as he wanted to keep the communication open. Met up with him 2-3 times during that period of time, had a casual talk, joke and laugh. He still do call me pet names and everything seems so natural. Realize that he is relief if we just have casual chat rather than mentioning about relationship issue. After a 2 weeks NC, i called him on a weekday afternoon to tell him i miss him and his response was " quiet for a few second and said how do u expect me to react?'' and then 2nd question which i asked was " do u miss me?" he answer was " guess currently I am facing too much of pressure and I don't have time to think about it".

 

However, he did offer to see me on this coming MON as I still have some of my personal stuff with him and he mention that he there is anything which I would like to talk to him we can just discuss on that day.

 

I seriously want him back in my life and i am not sure what to do / what to say when i meet him as he is currently in the mess. I just don't want to say the wrong thing at the wrong time.

 

Please help!!!

 

Your answer will be much appreciated. Thank you very much!!!

[justadream]

Anyone Can answer me? Should i go for option 1 or 2? Meeting him today...

 

 

Option 1:

 

Be straigt forward n tell him exactly how i feel... if he is not keen.. probably tht will make me move on once n for all.. at least i know where i stood and i shouldn't put in much hope. Consequences...lost all my dignity.

 

 

Option2:

 

Remain in the game. Switch the topic and talk bout other things. At least this would be my cover line and make as if nothing happen tht day n wait for him to come back ..... Consiquences will be... not sure how long i'll keep silent and when I am gonna break down again....If he is not coming back for good then this is double the impact.

 

 

 

HELP!