mizunderstood Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 Hey everyone! I came across this form and it look like a good place to seek some advice! Well, i am a 18 year old female, and just graduated from high school Yeah Anyways, i like this guy throughout the whole year, and you know in high shcool they have those stupid girl ask guy dances well my friends talked me into asking this guy that i like, so i did and turns out he couldn't go because he was going to be out of town. I figured that was a good reason so i didn't really care. We hardly ever talked in the halls or anything, but i still liked him for some reason even though i didn't know him very well, it was weird to me, but anyways the time had come for us to graduate and it was our last day of school and we had yearbook signings and everything, well i asked him to sign mine and he did and me his, well he say that he was sorry that we didn't go to the dance and to call him to hang out this summer, and i left mine number in his as well. Well being me i sit and anaylze situations like this and come up with stupid ideas, well this is what i think. 1. Either he wants to really go hang out this summer 2. He is just being nice and putting that and hoping that i don't call I also think that he should be the one calling me since i was the one that asked him to the dance in the first place so it's his turn. Or is that selfish to say, i don't know i am confused. Well i guess my overall question for everyone would be should i call him or just let it go? Any advice at all would be very helpfull at this point, thanks
Cupcake Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 You've already expressed your interest in him when you asked him to the dance. You both exchanged numbers. So all you have to do is be extreeeemly fun sounding, and call him just to say "Hey. I was looking through my yearbook and saw your number. Thought I'd give you a call to see what's up." Just be friendly to see how he's doing and stuff. Don't ask him out again or get too serious. You really want to see what's going on in his life. Is he happy, sad, friendly, has a girlfriend, ect. Hopefully the first conversation will go well, and the two of you will agree to keep in touch. If the conversation is good, let him know that you enjoyed talking with him.
Author mizunderstood Posted June 15, 2004 Author Posted June 15, 2004 ok thanks! just now if i do get the nerve up to call him what do you suggest we should do that isn't to serious and what kind of things do you talk about? Sorry these are pretty basic questions but i have never been on a date before and im pretty nervous about it just thinking about it? well thanks for you help i really appreciated it!
Cupcake Posted June 15, 2004 Posted June 15, 2004 You really want to see what's going on in his life. Is he happy, sad, friendly, has a girlfriend, ect. Just ask about what he's been up to. Don't get too nervous or worked up about it. Think about some things that you already know about him. Like if he played any sports, tell him that you are aware that he played, and ask about how he liked it and stuff. Hopefully, the two of you will ask some questions about stuff that you are both interested in knowing about each other. I mean, the conversation should flow according to the questions that are asked. Be yourself !
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