toffeecream77 Posted March 30, 2012 Posted March 30, 2012 ...every day. It's been seven months. Not sure if I'll ever be over him. 1
blindesided Posted March 30, 2012 Posted March 30, 2012 Do you feel you have made any progress in 7 mos? I cant imagine feeling the way I do right now 7 mos from now! I think I will always think of my ex - I still think of my ex-husband & do miss what "was" and there are fleeting moments of sadness but mainly relating to not having a "family" anymore. My current ex break up is still really fresh and painful & I can only hope to get back to where I was after my divorce I'm sorry you are going through this - heartbreak is no fun - I wouldnt want my worst enemy to feel this way 1
cflowers32 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Yeah, toffee, I'm sorry you're feeling bad. I hope that you are out right now on this Friday night having a great time!!! It's going to get better, and as blindsided said, I hope that it hasn't been like this for you the whole time. Seven months is a long time. *HUG*
budley12 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Im at 4 months and I feel as if I havnt made much progress =( All I can say is that I am now able to get out of bed, eat, and have being able to sleep some nights. I felt like I was getting better but I have relapsed once again for some reason.
Author toffeecream77 Posted March 31, 2012 Author Posted March 31, 2012 Thank you all for your kind words and support. It's gradually got worse over time. I've been on antidepressants for the last week. I'm depressed because my life isn't where I want it to be -- and along with the bad break up -- it's all a bit too much for me to handle. But if the bad break up didn't happen, or if I didn't meet my ex, I know I wouldn't be feeling as bad as I do. I just want the bad feelings to go away. I want to forget he ever existed.
budley12 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Thank you all for your kind words and support. It's gradually got worse over time. I've been on antidepressants for the last week. I'm depressed because my life isn't where I want it to be -- and along with the bad break up -- it's all a bit too much for me to handle. But if the bad break up didn't happen, or if I didn't meet my ex, I know I wouldn't be feeling as bad as I do. I just want the bad feelings to go away. I want to forget he ever existed. I was having HORRIBLE past few days but I feel much better today. Sure I still miss him with all my heart, but I feel better and that is all that matters. Today I went to a state park and brought a rock hammer with me and smashed rocks all day (im a geology major), and then I listened to christian music, and when I got home I took a nice hot bath and read an inspirational book my Dr Dwyer (he has some really good self-finding material). Grab a rock hammer and bust some rock!
Nohbody Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 It's weird. A year on I still miss the person I was with. But at this point there is probably nothing they could do to ever convince me it would be a good idea to start a new relationship with them. Does that make me miss them less? No, not really. 1
Author toffeecream77 Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 I got over my first love a lot quicker than this. So I worry if I'll ever be over this -- perhaps one day but it hurts even more to know that I'll continue to feel like this in the foreseeable future. I've tried everything When will it start to feel better? It really wouldn't be so bad if he didn't start seeing someone straight after we broke up -- and they're still together. While I cried and cried, he was in the beginning, exciting stage of a new relationship. He seemed so in love with me. Apparently, he felt like he had been hit by a truck when he first saw me. He pursued me like crazy and regularly travelled to my country to visit me. Yet it all went away so quickly. Either he lied or he's a very shallow person and can drift from one person to the next.
9Lives Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 I got over my first love a lot quicker than this. So I worry if I'll ever be over this -- perhaps one day but it hurts even more to know that I'll continue to feel like this in the foreseeable future. I've tried everything When will it start to feel better? AWWW Toffee, Im sorry to hear that. I just realized that Im still emotionally attached to my ex. I didnt realize that was the problem. He aint even worth it either. I understand how you feel. pray about it and remember..THIS TOO SHALL PASS. That is what you have to tell yourself...one day, you will be over it completely. It is going to pass. It just an emotion. If you cant get him back or you dont want him back....its just an emotion and it will go away soon if you let it. Sorry, not to minimize your memories or your relationship. I just want to help you move away from it if you want to get past it.
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