confusedgirl Posted June 14, 2004 Posted June 14, 2004 iv been wtih my lovely boyfriend for almost a year now and im so in love with him,he does things that make me smile and expresses he loves me in ways that he never needs say a word,buys me presents..basically hes the best thing ever to happen to me,he feels the same,he tells me how much he loves me...you get it its an awesome relationship,but now i'm starting to feel neglected subconcously by him. he does wrestling and its his passion,he strives to do the best he can..if theres something that will help him aim higher,he will do whatever it takes to reach it,he just loves it and he wants my support 100% but i cant do it if it means going days even weeks without seeing him whilst he is touring our country or elsewhere,hes done one country already but im so worried hes gonna start drifting apart from me and living his dream without me included,cos im just going to be left here unable to tag along as there is never a possibilty for me to e.g no room in travel bus or whatever,and whilst im here alone im feeling like im not a big part of his life,i would love to be but nowadays im feeling less and less a part that means much anymore. he tells me its not going to change things and we wil be together but i always wonder where i come into it,as he never seems to talk about things we could do,he just tells me how excited he is about his future matches and how he plans to do this do that,im left so confused half the time i know i should support him,but this seems to be al i can do,let him go off and do his thing,i have no control over him i know i shouldnt stop him but am i to just keep quiet feel lonely and support him and be this perfect girlfriend? it really hurts to support him cos i just feel like crying and saying ''no!! i cant face it!'' im just feeling so left out,i want to tell him howi feel but i tell him how i feel a bit too often i dont want to sound like a drag,i think he understands how i could be upset but still,i feel second best and only half loved,i want to be a big part of his life going along to support him watching what he does but i just dont FEEL that important.any advice?
dyermaker Posted June 14, 2004 Posted June 14, 2004 he wants my support 100% but i cant do it if it means going days even weeks without seeing him whilst he is touring our country or elsewhere, Why can't you? It sounds like he's a great guy, who has a dedication to something besides you as well. I think dealing with his hobby is part of being in a relationship with him. What's the crux of the issue? Is it just that you're lonesome when he's gone? Or is it that you don't trust him?
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