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praying... was your ex a rebound for you?

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That's both biased and unkind.

It's also uncalled for, but you probably feel bitter.

And i understand that.

but blame and responsibility are two different things.....

blame is proportional.

responsibility is equally divisible.

 

while one partner may be vastly more 'to blame' for the rift and break, both partners are equally responsible for the upkeep, maintenance and growth of a relationship.

and when there is a rift, each person has to seek their role in the incident, however painful it might be.....

 

Great post(s) T :)

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That's both biased and unkind.

It's also uncalled for, but you probably feel bitter.

And i understand that.

but blame and responsibility are two different things.....

blame is proportional.

responsibility is equally divisible.

 

while one partner may be vastly more 'to blame' for the rift and break, both partners are equally responsible for the upkeep, maintenance and growth of a relationship.

and when there is a rift, each person has to seek their role in the incident, however painful it might be.....

 

These are very wise words and hit close to home for me. Thanks for that.

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