Imported Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Yep, you hit the nail on the head, OP. In my last relationship, I was willing to have one. HE would talk about it, but when push came to shove, he admitted he would be jealous whether the third partner was a guy or a chick ("although I'd feel less jealous about a girl." ...Uh-huh, wonder why, pal?). I suggested an open relationship too. I would've been fine with it. But that REALLY got him going. The older I get and the more I see the world around me, the less emotion I attach to sex. Screwin' is screwin' is screwin' and little more. I knew a girl like that before. To her, sucking dick was like shaking someone's hand. It didn't really mean anything, just a service she gave freely to guys she likes. I have learned to avoid girls like that other than as aquaintances. Not that I met that many ....nice sluts, that are not skanky...because most of them are skanky and I don't really like associating with skanks at all. Well, anyway, she really liked sucking dick. Beautiful girl, real warm and friendly too. Open to doing anything. However, you don't want to be her boyfriend lol.
Dust Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I knew a girl like that before. To her, sucking dick was like shaking someone's hand. It didn't really mean anything, just a service she gave freely to guys she likes. I have learned to avoid girls like that other than as aquaintances. Not that I met that many ....nice sluts, that are not skanky...because most of them are skanky and I don't really like associating with skanks at all. Well, anyway, she really liked sucking dick. Beautiful girl, real warm and friendly too. Open to doing anything. However, you don't want to be her boyfriend lol. RiverRunning is cool. Screwing is screwing or what ever she wrotes means exactly that. Don't read into that screwing is like shaking hands.
wwwjd Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 The older I get and the more I see the world around me, the less emotion I attach to sex. Screwin' is screwin' is screwin' and little more. ...and there is why I date younger women. Still means SOMETHING important to them. Less jaded and all that.
123321 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Its my personal opinion that open relationships dont last (3 somes count). What about polygamists?
CarrieT Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I'd like to know what people think about a SIXsome? Been there. Done that. Definitely NOT two or three times more interesting than a threesome.
missyme04 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Been there. Done that. Definitely NOT two or three times more interesting than a threesome. What's like to have SIXsome?
Ruby Slippers Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 As some of the other women have said, I think the idea of MFM is hot, but in the dirty fantasy portion of my mind. I had one clear, easy opportunity to have one, but I was young and it seemed overwhelming, so I declined. At the perfect time, under the perfect circumstances, I might consider it. But I'm not really going to care if it doesn't happen. I've never found the idea of FMF sexy, whatsoever.
Dust Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 As some of the other women have said, I think the idea of MFM is hot, but in the dirty fantasy portion of my mind. I had one clear, easy opportunity to have one, but I was young and it seemed overwhelming, so I declined. At the perfect time, under the perfect circumstances, I might consider it. But I'm not really going to care if it doesn't happen. I've never found the idea of FMF sexy, whatsoever. Being with me would be like getting tag teamed by two men. I was going to write a joke but it was so dirty it would get me ban. 1
Ruby Slippers Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Being with me would be like getting tag teamed by two men. I was going to write a joke but it was so dirty it would get me ban. I do like your swagger
Dust Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 I do like your swagger It's a double edged sword but it makes life interesting. How about rewarding my swagger with the thing you know I want? You know it will be fun for both of us.
Leigh 87 Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Its my personal opinion that open relationships dont last (3 somes count). This is based on what Ive seen with friends, heard from acquaintances, seen online, etc. And in the cases of the one sided open relationships, one person always seems to be getting taken for a ride. But her, if you and your boyfriend can make this last, cool. But I just feel people who sleep with other people, while restricting their partner, are having their cake and eating it too. Its all about them and the flavor of the month, and Ive never seen that last long. And many times, theres extra cirricular activites going on that their partner doesnt know about. Once you open the door to outsiders with 3 somes, you can never be ultra certain that someone wont go off and have a party without you. But if you can do it, and make the relationship work, then thats all good. You asked for my opinion though. I agree that in most cases, your right; hence why your opinion is based on actual fact... on real life couples you have seen or heard about. I think I am just a rare case where it just works for us. I Honestly do not think he wants to seek women outside of the 3 somes, without my knowledge. He does not seam like he would at all. I am 100% confident we are just a small, very small minority of couples, where 3 somes works for. I have told him that, if it is a case of him finding the right women and then declining 3 somes, could he PLEASE find her, and leave me alone to find a guy who truly is all about me, and wants me so much more than any other women. He assures me he is crazy about me, in all ways, and 3 somes are just a fun thing that keeps him feeling " young, like he is having fun" He has been with women, and only ever had two amazing girls he thougth highly enough of to love. I think it is just my boyfriend, and that it is not a case where he will meet a women and be like " wow, she is it, I cannot believe I enjoyed the occasional 3 some, I cannot bring myself to consider doing it with this women" I feel like he is as in love with a women as he CAN get, with me.
CarrieT Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 What's like to have SIXsome? Complicated. You don't know whose body part you are playing with, limbs get in the way, and it smells really, really bad.
ThatDudeXO Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Never had one. My friend had a threesome where she was with another girl but she never did anything with the other guy...does that count? ha!
Dust Posted April 3, 2012 Posted April 3, 2012 Never had one. My friend had a threesome where she was with another girl but she never did anything with the other guy...does that count? ha! Yes it counts. Bragworthy for the guy, but not as impressive as if he had done both girls... Although the girl who did both the guy and the girl had the full threesome experience.
chrissylee Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 (edited) ...........................In fact, I believe u have to be very, very much in love with your partner, in order for a 3 some to even be an option for you. I can say with a lot of certainty, that the love I have with my boyfriend is very strong, more so than most couples. We are just incredibly close. I'm sorry but you live in a fantasy world if you think what you and your "boyfriend" have is more strong and real then most couples. He doesn't respect you or he wouldn't screw hookers and put you at risks for stds. Edited April 4, 2012 by chrissylee
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