ViCtOrIa B Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 In the title of this thread, I've referred to the guy as my ex, however, in all honesty, he never actually committed to a proper relationship with me. He was always very secretive, contacted me when it suited him and I usually received paranoid calls in the middle of the night because he wanted to make sure I wasn't seeing anyone...all of this went on for a year because I kept hoping that he might get serious. Then one day he sent me a pretty outrageous message, basically full of insults and we heard nothing of each for a couple of months. Now its almost a year later and this guy, despite not wanting a relationship with me, keeps contacting me in any way he can, on and off. I will hear from him and then nothing for about two months and then boom, there he is, AGAIN! I just don't understand what he wants from me. I've asked him and he says he doesn't know... Every time he contacts me it messes with my head because I liked him and I wanted a relationship with him. If he leaves me alone, I can move on and forget about him, but then he springs back up and turns my world upside down. Does anyone have any idea why he's doing this? His actions show he doesn't want me, if he did then he would be with me, so why won't he just let me go?
AriesBunny Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 This is controlling behavior. Why don't you change your phone number or block his? 1
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