idkyluvhim Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 On Christmas Day my old coworker and me agreed upon a one nighter to relieve ourselves, but then it lead to us from only being attracted somewhat to one another to sharing personal secrets to only one another, we became best friends. We got to point a where I told him I wanted more than friends with bennies, and he said he liked what we had and i agreed because We had better than a relationship. no emotions and arguements here and there and we always got along. we eventually moved blocks from one another, and spent quality time together everyday and all our friends thought we were dating but we never confirmed and say we were jux friends. His best guy friends told me that his playa days had changed and he talked to only me, and he changed his way of thinking about life, he was thinking bout a future(hes 29, im 27), so i asked him again about us and he got mad and ended everything! I cherish our friendship most, i love him so much and I dont know why?!?! we txt here and there for a couple weeks after debating bout how I ruin what we had, but earlier today we txt and I apologized o him saying it was my fault and what's done is done and cant be fixed, which lead to more debate via txting and it ending up with us talking on the phone like our old days, laffing and talking serious. Now im on here cuz i still love him! what should i do? does he love me? or should we jux stay friends? or am i crazy?
TaraMaiden Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 you're crazy. this is going nowhere. stay friends if you must (I would personally strongly advise against it, because it won't work), but broaden your horizon. Because he's not ever going to narrow his down to just you. He doesn't care as much as you do. He gets his pecker seen to, and has a 'gurl' to hang out with - sorted! You're investing a whole lot more emotional commitment to this - and it's all just going to explode in your face, because he's in to you - but not in to you enough. Only just enough to - get into you. if you see what i mean..... and no girl in love wants to feel like some cheap tramp, giving it all away out of desperation to hold onto something that she can never have.... 1
FitChick Posted March 30, 2012 Posted March 30, 2012 Yet another example of why no one should have a friend with benefits relationship.
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