she had breakfast with my mum and is txting me

[safetyv]

my ex has been appearing in my life alot lately. only two months ago she told me she did not want to be with me but in the last few weeks its alll changed...

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/second-chances/318425-i-think-she-showing-interest-whats-her-intent

 

thats my most recent thread but since then she had breakfast with my mum and sister... while at breakfast she sent me a picture of a gnome (we stole a gnome toigether back in the day) and txtd me for a few hours, she told me during this convo that she wasnt going to be coming into my work that night (which she had been doing for the last few weeks) but she ended up coming in anyway saying she changed her mind (i maight add she was looking incredibly good! makeup heels etc)...

so what is up with this girl?! i txtd her tonight and she never replied but i am pretty sure she would have been at work at the time.

[TaraMaiden]

Wait until she arranges to meet with you, and when you're actually with her, tell her she's not going anywhere until she tells you what the hell her game is.

does she intend rekindling what you had, and trying again - or what is her game, exactly?

 

and until you get it straight form the horse's mouth, one way or the other, you can't really do anything, can you?

 

see what she says - then go from there.

Let us know - because until we know as much as you will do - we can't tell you what's gong on either.....

[safetyv]

I am worried that if I confront her like that it will push her away, it feels to me that if tere is a chance of rekindling this it's going to be a case of the two of us slowly rebuilding the comfort and attraction we once had until it inevitable that we get back together.

Fronting her about how she feels will push her away IMO.?

 

My other problem is I don't know how to establish deeper contact than her visiting my work and slowly starting to txt again (like once a week).