outofmyfreakingmind Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 So, my boyfriend told me his ex wanted him to come have sex with her. He didn't do it, but this part isn't a surprise. I than was curious how exactly he responded so I looked at his texts and saw that he said he had fallen asleep and "your still my favorite in bed...just so you know"...I have been with him for three years...He says he was letting her down easy and didn't want to hurt her feelings. What is this!!!! Am I crazy to be crushed? I don't really think I want to be with him anymore.
TaraMaiden Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Let her have him. sounds a bit like they deserve each other. tell him to go get her and have her as a FWB - but you're not falling into that game plan. you're out of here..... i wouldn't stand for that, sorry. I mean, it is true that no two sexual partners are alike, and sometimes sex is better with one person than another, and that's a fact but - really, i mean, come on.... it's not the kind of thing you ever voice - to anyone!
Philosoraptor Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Ouch, I agree you need to ditch this guy. Letting her down easy would be something along the lines of 'I'm flattered but I am in a relationship and have no interest in stepping outside of it".
baguette Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 What he said was totally inappropriate. Sounds like you're wasting your time with him. I'm sorry.
Mutant Debutante Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 No. It's not okay. Sounds like he's keeping her on the back burner, plus that was totally inappropriate. Yeah, I'd be crushed if my SO ever said that to one of his exes, and I'd NEVER say that to anybody who wasn't currently my SO.
IHaveNoWords Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 He's a liar. I agree with what everyone else said. Let her have him. There are other ways to "let a person down easy." And you should not take that from any man, no matter how you feel about him. Not only would I be completely crushed, but he wouldn't make it out the front door without being hit in the head with a rolling pin. It took me a long time to stop taking crap from guys too, but you need to love yourself and have respect for yourself. Dump him, sweetheart. But, that's just my take on it. Hope everything works out.
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