singlelife Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 to flirt, let them know you like them, in the first few interactions, then back off. most of the time women will miss the attention and be more aggressive. women are just made like that.
OhHey Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Cool..... I'm going to pinch some girl ass tomorrow, *resting fingers* 1
Titania22 Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Well it's definately helpful to give some indication. I have made a few friends at uni, and for the life of me i can't tell if they would be interested, or are just friendly. It's a difficulty, especially since i want to work on not being so blunt.
oldguy Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Cool..... I'm going to pinch some girl ass tomorrow, *resting fingers* :laugh: I've actually seen that work. Of course the same guy got his face slapped regularly & even got the crap beat out of him by an angry boy friend he didn't know was there, but being aggressive, in a public place, works more often then I would have thought if I hadn't seen it. :laugh: In fact I did a term paper on it for one of my social psych classes in college.
Emilia Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 to flirt, let them know you like them, in the first few interactions, then back off. most of the time women will miss the attention and be more aggressive. women are just made like that. Well when a guy flirts with me and then backs off I'm assuming two things: either that he thinks I haven't made enough of an effort and wants to see whether I will pursue him or that he lost interest. The first can come across as game playing and that's very unattractive. It's true that you don't want to be too aggressive in case the interest level isn't reciprocated but I don't recommend the hot and cold approach in general though. I think it attracts people who are after drama. If you want a laid back kind of girl, you need to come across steady in your behaviour. 2
phineas Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 That's how I do it when out. I mingle & talk to every woman I'm interested in. Towards the end of the night those interested gravitate towards me. Whenever I focused on just one woman I wound up going home empty-handed. Of course i'm older so the game is different for me. There appears to be a shortage of non-fat guys my age so women have to be more aggressive. There are just more options for everyone when you are in your 20's so I think OP's theory only works if you can make a first impression that sticks before you move on.
Emilia Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 That's how I do it when out. I mingle & talk to every woman I'm interested in. Towards the end of the night those interested gravitate towards me. Whenever I focused on just one woman I wound up going home empty-handed. Of course i'm older so the game is different for me. There appears to be a shortage of non-fat guys my age so women have to be more aggressive. There are just more options for everyone when you are in your 20's so I think OP's theory only works if you can make a first impression that sticks before you move on. I think there is nothing wrong with hedging your bets initially, I'm not offended when I see men doing this as I understand their position. I sort of do the same. However, after meeting him once and having a decent conversation when I feel we made a good connection, if I feel him pulling away I move on
RainMann Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 The best way to get a woman, is to make enough money to buy two. 1
El Brujo Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 She just wants to see if you're dumb enough to fall for it. What she REALLY wants you to do is put on a chicken suit and dance around in the middle of the busiest boulevard in town at rush hour.
grkBoy Posted March 30, 2012 Posted March 30, 2012 I partially agree. I think when you meet and are talking/engaging with a woman, you should toss out a little flirtation to let her know you're not here to just make friends. If she's interested, she'll flirt back...if not, she'll move on and thus you can move on as well. Show that sexuality...show her you want her and "let's just be friends" isn't an option.
Author singlelife Posted March 30, 2012 Author Posted March 30, 2012 I partially agree. I think when you meet and are talking/engaging with a woman, you should toss out a little flirtation to let her know you're not here to just make friends. If she's interested, she'll flirt back...if not, she'll move on and thus you can move on as well. Show that sexuality...show her you want her and "let's just be friends" isn't an option. what you said
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