Imwaiting Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 (edited) I love my bf but wish there was a way he would go a bit further than that. We've been dating for 5 months now and he still seems like kind of nervous. I was thinking of making the move myself and telling him what I would like but don't want to sound too aggressive. Still I wish we did more things (if not sex, at least the other things). Why is he so nervous? I'm not going to criticize him. I just want some intimacy. Is there a way I can make this move pass kissing? When will he be ready to proceed to it fully? Edited March 29, 2012 by Imwaiting
betterdeal Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Have you told him what you've written here? That would be a good start, no? I want you to make love to me
Million.to.1 Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 why don't you show him?.. take his hand and put it somewhere....smile at him, look into his eyes..touch him... tell him you like it when he touches you... ...seduce him.
Author Imwaiting Posted March 29, 2012 Author Posted March 29, 2012 Yeah I might have to take the lead here. This is the first I'll be the initiator; never had this happened before.
Author Imwaiting Posted March 29, 2012 Author Posted March 29, 2012 Have you told him what you've written here? That would be a good start, no? I want you to make love to meWow that direct!! I haven't really told him. I don't want him to feel I'm pressuring him but I'm thinking of doing what Million.to.1 wrote.
betterdeal Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Verbal, non-verbal, choose the communication style that suits you. Bear in mind he might be nervous, so if he tenses up, relax, make it clear this is fun, not life or death, and see how it goes. 1
RainMann Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 5 months in and just kissing?.....I think he maybe gay.....
Author Imwaiting Posted March 29, 2012 Author Posted March 29, 2012 5 months in and just kissing?.....I think he maybe gay.....He isn't. I learned from a couple of his friends about how he used to have a crush on two girls from high school but never got to asking them out and didn't go to the prom.
RainMann Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 Gay people have crushes on girls you know....the fact that he did not go to prom and did not asked them out..means it was a gay crush and proms are for the dudes and chicks...not dudes and d*cks. I bet he likes to watch shemale porn....
betterdeal Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 He might have a problem with his penis or genitals, such as phimosis (tight foreskin), which can make erections painful and so he avoids sex as a result. Best to talk to him and see if he'll discuss any fears or concerns he has.
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