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When an ex's friend tells you "You two should get back together"


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Anyone experienced this, do you know what the friends intention was?

 

6 months after being dumped and basically NC, I received a text from ex out of nowhere (Well actually she approached me in a club the week before an apologised for how she treated me) last week asking if we could meet up to talk. I agreed and texted her back (after considering it for a day) to arrange plans and times, she stopped replying to these, I'm left totally puzzled and feeling rejected again.

 

The following weekend, I'm in the same club i met her in last time, I walk in and her friends are all hanging about near my friends. I act like I'm having a good time but deliberately avoided eye contact even though I could see her looking at me several times. She left after a while.

 

Later in the night I passed her friend and said Hi, her friend was a little bit drunk but started telling me how I should give it another try with my ex, and that we were so good together. She repeated this several times and I said something about how my ex had made a mug out of me and she just kept saying how we were perfect for each other. I didn't really want to enquire about what she was getting at as i didn't want to appear to interested. I'm pretty sure she said "I don't want to say to much" as in she didn't want to reveal anything that she's not meant to.

 

Anyone had this from an ex's friend? Do you think she's testing the water for her friend, or purely doing for because she personally liked us as a couple and thinks I'm a good guy for her friend.

 

Confused now because if it's the first reason, then why didn't my ex reply to the texting that went on a few days before?

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