When an ex's friend tells you "You two should get back together"

[MIK1000]

Anyone experienced this, do you know what the friends intention was?

 

6 months after being dumped and basically NC, I received a text from ex out of nowhere (Well actually she approached me in a club the week before an apologised for how she treated me) last week asking if we could meet up to talk. I agreed and texted her back (after considering it for a day) to arrange plans and times, she stopped replying to these, I'm left totally puzzled and feeling rejected again.

 

The following weekend, I'm in the same club i met her in last time, I walk in and her friends are all hanging about near my friends. I act like I'm having a good time but deliberately avoided eye contact even though I could see her looking at me several times. She left after a while.

 

Later in the night I passed her friend and said Hi, her friend was a little bit drunk but started telling me how I should give it another try with my ex, and that we were so good together. She repeated this several times and I said something about how my ex had made a mug out of me and she just kept saying how we were perfect for each other. I didn't really want to enquire about what she was getting at as i didn't want to appear to interested. I'm pretty sure she said "I don't want to say to much" as in she didn't want to reveal anything that she's not meant to.

 

Anyone had this from an ex's friend? Do you think she's testing the water for her friend, or purely doing for because she personally liked us as a couple and thinks I'm a good guy for her friend.

 

Confused now because if it's the first reason, then why didn't my ex reply to the texting that went on a few days before?

[alphamale]

her friend is feeding you bull****

[MIK1000]

her friend is feeding you bull****

 

care to expand on this? What would her reasons be for feeding me this?

[wilsonx]

stay away, let your ex come to you, its GIGS.

 

6 month apology, she feels guilty etc

 

you can't make this crap up. I did this same crap, my ex did this to me, others have done it. She doesnt want you back right now, you will know without a doubt in your mind when shes ready

[Chi townD]

AS soon as her friend said, " You two should get back together." I would have looked up at the ceiling. If she would have asked me what I was doing, I would have said, " Looking for those flying pigs."

[BewitchedandBothered]

You said her friend was drunk. There you go.

[Sugarkane]

AS soon as her friend said, " You two should get back together." I would have looked up at the ceiling. If she would have asked me what I was doing, I would have said, " Looking for those flying pigs."

 

I absolutely would've said something similar!!!

[immitable]

It means they have discussed the issue, gir´lfriends talk, you know.

I assume it is her gf, is she hot?

[EgoJoe]

It means that she has involved her girlfriend in her games. Inadvertantly or purposefully so.

 

She can't respond to you properly so why bother? If she asks to meetup again, say, "No, you blew that. Leave me be."

[MIK1000]

stay away, let your ex come to you, its GIGS.

 

6 month apology, she feels guilty etc

 

you can't make this crap up. I did this same crap, my ex did this to me, others have done it. She doesnt want you back right now, you will know without a doubt in your mind when shes ready

 

This six month mark thing is crazy.Amazing all the stuff that happens after six months to so many people. I never thought it would happen with me after six months though, cause it was only about a month ago I was feeling down about never hearing from her.

 

Yeah I guess I just have to play it cool. I wish I hadn't avoided eye contact though, I should've been friendly.

[MIK1000]

It means they have discussed the issue, gir´lfriends talk, you know.

I assume it is her gf, is she hot?

 

Yeah i assume they have two. So does that mean the friend is just looking to see how I would react to the idea?

 

Yeah the friend is hot.

[MIK1000]

AS soon as her friend said, " You two should get back together." I would have looked up at the ceiling. If she would have asked me what I was doing, I would have said, " Looking for those flying pigs."

 

That would've been game right there.

[immitable]

Yeah i assume they have two. So does that mean the friend is just looking to see how I would react to the idea?

 

Yeah the friend is hot.

 

Totally, her freinds want to see your reaction.

 

Want to see your ex's reaction - should have said "I think you and I would make a even better couple" to her hot friend.

[MIK1000]

Totally, her freinds want to see your reaction.

 

Want to see your ex's reaction - should have said "I think you and I would make a even better couple" to her hot friend.

 

 

Would love to, don't have the balls unfortunately.