mymission Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 I just want to text him and tell him I miss him
Kaotic Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Stay strong :-( we all have those days and it comes and goes in waves :-(
nick d Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 I broke my NC yesterday after 20 days.. And I'll be honest with you, even though she wrote me back I still feel worse.. I wish I wouldn't have broken NC. Stay strong you will heal MUCH faster with NC!!
chris24 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 It definitely comes and goes, with each day - if I'm having a bad day at school or work, it just makes it ten times harder not to contact them, but you have to stay strong.
Author mymission Posted March 28, 2012 Author Posted March 28, 2012 **** I text him. There's nothing going on in my life at the mo and when it gets me down I think about him more and more. And I want to talk to him.
smudge21 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Only more hurt comes from texting an ex, but we all do it. Only after a while do you start to get stronger and slowly are able to stop yourself from doing this. Basically, you'll learn from your mistakes and that will make you stronger. Someone was put an idea in my head before I texted my ex - just think about her there, receiving a text from someone she dumped ages ago and thinking "what a loser - he needs to move on and get a life - glad I never stayed with him" and then laughing at it and showing all her friends. That stopped me from pressing "send". 3
lostconfidence Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 i broke it today am fed up of thinking shes lost and confused.. so i sent her a civil email i know her well enough she isnt really a bad person and she will always reply even tho she banging sum1 else. i asked her straight dose she have heavy feelings for him she kept trying to avoid the question. all i needed to hear that she loved him and i would just put this whole thing to bed in my head.. she repyd with you know how much i care for you and i just like him lol. not what i was wanting am still taking it as love i have to. to at least get some sleep. i told her every1 makes mistakes and its admititing and forgiving is the hard part. i told her to be carefull cause she still hasnt healed and that i was a bit miffed for getting no break up sex.lol. and wished her all the best i do feel a lot better to be honest
gurr13r Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Im so close to sending a text too I had my ex blocked on facebook and skype, but unblocked her hoping she might contact me...
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Don't do it; you will regret it. If they want to talk to you so badly, they will call you. If you call them, you will not get the result you were hoping for. Their response will be cold and casual, some may even be mean and say "who's this?" You do not want that, nor do you want to start NC all over again. It's agonizing and NOT worth it. Picture the big ego boost you are giving your ex. And furthermore, why chase after someone who dumped you? If someone dumps me, I don't like them anymore. It hurts, but why want someone who doesn't want to be with you? Think of how worthy you of are of wonderful things---you ex doesn't deserve your sunshine; don't give it, okay? PS, I firmly believe my ex dumped me because he lost all his marbles. I don't need crazy. 1
Kaotic Posted May 16, 2012 Posted May 16, 2012 I'm really struggling today as well I just want to tell him that I love him and miss him and our puppy and that I still want to have children with him like we planned and travel to Peru :-( I miss him so much it's driving me crazy
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