Dues Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Met my old crush last year at the gym. We flirted for awhile and I wound up asking him out. He turned me down because he has a girlfriend. Fast forward a few months. Joined a dating site and find his brother on there. Messaged him and we chatted for a couple weeks. Went out on our first date and had a great time. Looks like we are going out again. Have never been in this situation before and not sure how to handle. Do I mention knowing his brother from the gym or just let it go for now?
CarrieT Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 I would totally come clean - before you get more deeply involved and invited to a family dinner...
january2011 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 When you first found out he is your former crush's brother, why did you not mention that you go to the same gym as his brother? I would just casually mention that you found out that you know his brother because you both go to the same gym. Then just let it go. If it's really not a big deal, there's no point in giving it much more thought than that. 3
missyme04 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 When you first found out he is your former crush's brother, why did you not mention that you go to the same gym as his brother? I would just casually mention that you found out that you know his brother because you both go to the same gym. Then just let it go. If it's really not a big deal, there's no point in giving it much more thought than that. I agree! It's just a CRUSH so you dont have to worry at all. I think it's not a big deal either. go girl!
Stellar Wench Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Met my old crush last year at the gym. We flirted for awhile and I wound up asking him out. He turned me down because he has a girlfriend. Fast forward a few months. Joined a dating site and find his brother on there. Messaged him and we chatted for a couple weeks. Went out on our first date and had a great time. Looks like we are going out again. Have never been in this situation before and not sure how to handle. Do I mention knowing his brother from the gym or just let it go for now? I hope you're not dating him to gain an inside track on his brother. It seems a little creepy. You should probably mention this to him. It'd look really bad if his brother told him you had asked him out before.
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