setsenia Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 So my grandmother died about 2 years ago. My dad had told me and my brother there was 100k from her life insurance policy and he gave his brother (my uncle) the house, because he already had a house. We all know for a fact my brother and I were in the will as my grandmother's only grandchildren. My brother even saw a copy of the will. My mom remembers my grandma and grandpa including the grandchildren in their wills when she was pregnant. My dad claims my grandmother had no money to leave us and makes us "sell" her kick-knacks as part of our inheritance. I was working at the time and couldn't host the garage sale most of those times as I worked weekends. Well, if we couldn't work these garage sales, we couldn't have our inheritance. IMO, inheritance isn't something you work for, it's something that's passed down to you upon the person's death. My brother and I are struggling financially and my dad said the will was just for him and his brother and there was nothing for us. Now he's calling me up at work, making it sound like an emergency, claiming my brother must be delusional because we both heard him say she left 100k and the house. He gave his brother the house, because there wasn't much equity. I know I heard him say the same thing and asked for our SSN to get our share, because the money was sent to him. Never saw that money and now he says there wasn't anything left for us. I told him he's always bragging about how much money he makes and helps all these foreigners, but doesn't help my brother and I a dime. He claims he helped me get put through college. What nonsense! Financial aid and student loans are putting me through college and my H is the one who provided me with a home at 18 because my dad was emotionally and physically abusive. He is full of crap and it's pissing me off how he says he spent so much money on us when he did the bare minimum until I was 18.
RiverRunning Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 I'm with January. Maybe an attorney can help you out? That aside, it sounds like your dad's a living, breathing hunk of crap and you're better off breaking contact with him if possible.
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