Katerose Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I have been in a relation with my bf for 2 yrs. However recently he says i have hurted him . He ignored me for two months. So my best friend asked him why he is doing this he said he wants to break up but did not give her any reason. He told my best friend to tell me to move on and dont cry and be sad and he doesnt want to talk to me and its over. If he wants to breakup why cant he come and tell me and give the reason? am i so bad that i dont deserve a closure? What should i do? I love him so much.
january2011 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I think his ignoring you for two months is all the answer he's willing to give you. It's likely that he used that two months to pull away from you and get his emotions in check. It's unfair that he won't talk to you, given that you have at least two years of shared history. However, he may feel that now that you are not together, he does not owe you anything. Not even an explanation. Of course you deserve closure. However, you will only get that if you move on. If you make moving on dependent on him explaining himself, you're going to make it more painful and a more drawn out process. I suggest that you cut off contact. Further contact will only cause you more pain. Get back to rebuilding your life without him. I'm sorry you're going through this.
CaliBabe Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 That is very cruel and callous. I agree with the above poster, he probably feels that he does not owe you anything since he ended the relationship. I would take his 2 months of no contact as a sign and move on. What else are you really to do? What a horrible way of handling the situation, I'm sorry you are going through this. Take this time to go NC, work on yourself and let go. (I know it's easier said than done)
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