amonkey Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I met her just over 8 months ago and 6 months ago we began dating, in the begining it was fantastic, i thought we were off to a great start but things just never seemed to move past that, we still havent passed the start line. About 2 months into dating i was about to ask her if she would like to be my girlfriend she said not yet, we need to date longer. Then two months of hell went by, not knowing what we were anymore, then she gave me the line we werent offical anyway, then she left only to come back four days later saying she missed me. Another 2 months passed and i told her eventually im going to want this to become something more but im not sure your going to give it to me, another 6 months and we will still be in the same place, she said would that be a problem? Well yeah it would. An so we reach where we are now, her parents have no idea who i am, her friends dont know who i am apart from maybe 3 or 4.. and when her mum asks what shes doing today she will say im just hanging out with my 'friend'.. im called her friend, i dont understand, i am 22 and she is 24, i feel like a doormat but sometimes i feel i am asking for too much, but i dont think i am, 6 months is long enough? I want to ask her why we arnt officially together? She tells me she loves me, this is of course when she feels like saying it, believe me i have said it to her and had her just not say anything back and make me feel like dirt. I was at hers yesterday, im making these 2 hour trips each week that is costing me, for something im not sure has a future because she wont let it progress, i feel like im loosing interest because i want to be with someone who i know whats the same as me, i have no idea what she wants. Am i asking for too much? Is 6 months not long enough? Anyone else had this happen to them?
Onlyjonley Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 She's just not that into you. She's keeping you around until something else comes along. Move on.
veggirl Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 She's just not that into you. She's keeping you around until something else comes along. Move on. This exactly. Tell her that you want her to be your girlfriend. Anything other than "yes I'd love to!" means you need to GOOOO. Be prepared to walk cause I don't think you're gonna get the answer you want. Don't let her string you along guy! 6 mos is PLENTY of time. Seriously.
SJC2008 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 She sounds like the type that can't be alone and would be with someone she wasn't totally into to not be alone. So if you dumped her today she'd probably be hooked up tomorrow. Leave her, most woman want relationships by her age and she clearly doesn't want one with you. Leave her and find someone else who is interested in you.
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