xxoo Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Samsung, you'll never please everyone. So you may as well please yourself. Do you like the way you look? If you do, that confidence will shine through, and others will see you in your very best light. 1
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I guess it's human nature to thrive for the maximum goal/score whether it's in looks or getting the highest GPA in college. At some point everyone wants to look their best and wonder what's it like being a 10. It's not worthy of very much head space. Believe me. Just take great care of your body because it's the only one you've got. If you enjoy fashion and cosmetic stuff, have fun with it. FORGET the number scale. Please. I beg you.
ThaWholigan Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I concur with some of the others here, I wouldn't think about assigning a number to your level of attractiveness. Become comfortable with your look now, accentuate the best features and accompany with whatever style you think suits you. 1
veggirl Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I don't think people can become a 10. They either are or they aren't. It basically requires having a fit body with fat in all the right places. The face must be very pretty without makeup. IMO, I think it's healthiest to try and look your best and not worry about what number you are. I agree with Somedude. If you aren't already a 10, you most likely aren't going to be. Besides how can a 10 be truly a 10 if it is so easy to obtain? Of course a "7" can look better, but up to a 10, perfection, no I doubt it or you'd already be it. Anyway, you sound disturbingly pre-occupied with this notion of "moving up" lookswise. You should...relax. 1
Million.to.1 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 OMG you ONLY a 7???? And to make matters worse you are 25!! Over the hill much??? Gosh girl, it's all downhill from here you know. While validation from others is what you desire, you will never be anymore than a 7. There is some wise advice in this responses. I would listen if I were you, because as you get older, This validation you seek is even less attainable and doesn't ever fill the hole that needs filling.
Negative Nancy Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I don't think people can become a 10. They either are or they aren't. It basically requires having a fit body with fat in all the right places. The face must be very pretty without makeup. Sunny Leone comes very close. Though, I'm not saying that a 7 girl can't move up to an 8 with the right clothes, hair and make-up. Wanting to go higher requires hitting the sweet spot of body weight, and even then having the T & A really is just a matter of genetics. IMO, I think it's healthiest to try and look your best and not worry about what number you are. she doesn't look like a 10 to me at all; the face is average to below-average, she has a thick midsection and she looks a little out of shape. if i was a guy, i'd rate her a 7 at best, more like 6. but of course, as expected, she has big jugs, so that alone probably makes her a 10 in somedude's book.... just goes to show that one person's 10 is another person's 5. just having the wrong hair color sometimes is enough to be a 5 in some people's eyes. i.e. the guys who dig the exotic looks won't find a blonde-haired, blue-eyed woman attractive...at the very least they wouldn't rate her a personal 10, and vice versa.
Ross MwcFan Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Why is everyone so obsessed with their looks?? I guess because so many people judge you on them.
bikinibeach Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Agreed! Post pictures and we can give you some tips. I consider myself somewhat of an expert But anyway, YES, the answer is YES you can be hotter. Might take effort though but possible.
verhrzn Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I'm starting a collection for plastic surgery, if you wanted to join in. People make donations for all sorts of things. I'm not sure how to angle the message yet... something like "Hate seeing all the ugly/average chicks walking around? Donate to make all the women of the world more attractive!" But seriously, you are already attractive. A 7-9 is good. With the right guy, you could easily bump up to a 10. I'd say take strong advantage of your exotic looks. I'm really not sure why you're so dead-set on being a 10.
bikinibeach Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 :bunny:I JUST SAW YOUR PICTURE!!! I am only posting this because you asked! Here are some things you can do to be better looking 1) Lose some weight. Talk to a nutritionist about your diet and start going to the gym. Even if you only hit the treadmill, it can make a big difference. 2) You have beautiful dark eyes! Get your makeup done by a pro. I reccommend MAC. While there, ask the makeup artist where she gets her hair done and her eyebrows waxed. Go to those places and get that done!!! 3) Learn which colors are flattering on you..the clothes you are wearing look drab and outdated. 4) Learn how to smile in pictures!! And never let someone take a pic of you from below eye level- guaranteed to not look your best. Most women who complain about not being attractive aren't really willing to put the effort in to change that. I have given you the information. Whether or not you take my advice is up to you. Good luck!!
starla33 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Honestly a 7 is good! You can improve your look by working out/new haircuts/new makeup etc. Ever see that video of that plain looking girl on youtube that does her makeup and ends up looking super hot in the end?
verhrzn Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Honestly a 7 is good! You can improve your look by working out/new haircuts/new makeup etc. Ever see that video of that plain looking girl on youtube that does her makeup and ends up looking super hot in the end? Why do people call her plain?? She was already pretty darn attractive to begin with... She just went from "pretty" to "hot," but I'd never say she was plain, or even average. Show me a video of a girl who goes from ugly to hot without surgery or Photoshop, THEN I'll be convinced make-up and hair can do wonders.
somedude81 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 she doesn't look like a 10 to me at all; the face is average to below-average, she has a thick midsection and she looks a little out of shape. if i was a guy, i'd rate her a 7 at best, more like 6. but of course, as expected, she has big jugs, so that alone probably makes her a 10 in somedude's book.... LOL, and people tell me I'm picky about women The big jugs are only worth half a point, okay maybe .75 If her face is below average then it should be really easy to find girls that are as least as pretty as she is. Thick midsection and looks a little out of shape, that is ideal for me. I don't like it when girls are too skinny. IMO, the level of fat on her is perfect. While really hot, I think Marisa Miller needs to gain a few pounds. just goes to show that one person's 10 is another person's 5. That's definitely true. I've also noticed that men and women have differing views on feminine beauty. I've noticed that women tend to think a skinnier girl is more attractive.
somedude81 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Honestly a 7 is good! You can improve your look by working out/new haircuts/new makeup etc. Ever see that video of that plain looking girl on youtube that does her makeup and ends up looking super hot in the end? Why do people call her plain?? She was already pretty darn attractive to begin with... She just went from "pretty" to "hot," but I'd never say she was plain, or even average. Show me a video of a girl who goes from ugly to hot without surgery or Photoshop, THEN I'll be convinced make-up and hair can do wonders. I love Jenna Marbles. She's so cool. Even before she gets dolled up she's cute/pretty. But she does transform into HOT. God I wish men could do that.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 she doesn't look like a 10 to me at all; the face is average to below-average, she has a thick midsection and she looks a little out of shape. if i was a guy, i'd rate her a 7 at best, more like 6. Wow. A 6? You're harsh!
ThaWholigan Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Wow. A 6? You're harsh! Well, she is a Negative Nancy after all 1
make me believe Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I think it's pretty easy for girls to improve their looks with the right hair, makeup, and clothes. Samsung, you look like you are naturally pretty but honestly that picture is really unflattering because of the angle. From what I can see, I bet you have gorgeous long, shiny hair. I would emphasize the hell out of that if I was you, but I LOVE long hair. I bet you would look great in more vibrant colors too. It doesn't look like you're wearing much/if any makeup, and I think tastefully applied makeup is pretty much always a plus on a woman. IMO you're a perfect example of someone who would go up a couple of notches with the right styling. But you ARE fine as is, too! Your hair & eyes are especially pretty. If you go on youtube and watch some makeup tutorials (especially the "get ready with me" ones where they start w/ totally bare faces), you'll see how much of a difference some makeup can make. (Although you probably don't want to pile it on the way some of them do...)
El Brujo Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 When it comes to looks, I've always been rated either average or above average but never the highest. In number, I was given a 7 by different voters. It's ok but I wish I was higher. Can I improve this or will I forever be just a 7? In addition it's not helping that I'll be turning 25 on April. I'll just say that I have my own ideas about feminine beauty. ;-*
Art_Critic Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Can a 7 in looks become a 9 or 10? If you love a person they all become 10's.... 2
jerbear Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 If you love a person they all become 10's.... Ding ding ding!
verhrzn Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 If you love a person they all become 10's.... But he has to fall in love with her first... and in order to do that she already needs to exceed a certain threshold. 1
FitChick Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 I don't think people can become a 10. They either are or they aren't. Cindy Jackson did. With a lot of money.
kaylan Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Working out and having good style can help a bit. Though if youre already a 7 I dont think it will move you past 8. 9s and 10s are rare and having that rating is down to great genetics mostly. Either way I dont think 10s exist. No one is perfect and beauty is subjective.
Author samsungxoxo Posted March 28, 2012 Author Posted March 28, 2012 :bunny:I JUST SAW YOUR PICTURE!!! I am only posting this because you asked! Here are some things you can do to be better looking 1) Lose some weight. Talk to a nutritionist about your diet and start going to the gym. Even if you only hit the treadmill, it can make a big difference. 2) You have beautiful dark eyes! Get your makeup done by a pro. I reccommend MAC. While there, ask the makeup artist where she gets her hair done and her eyebrows waxed. Go to those places and get that done!!! 3) Learn which colors are flattering on you..the clothes you are wearing look drab and outdated. 4) Learn how to smile in pictures!! And never let someone take a pic of you from below eye level- guaranteed to not look your best. Most women who complain about not being attractive aren't really willing to put the effort in to change that. I have given you the information. Whether or not you take my advice is up to you. Good luck!!Thank you I'll keep this in mind. Yeah I might be kind of overweight (138-142 Ibs and 5'7) so I will start going to the gym. You're also right in the fact that I don't always smile and hardly ever wear make-up. I guess if I'm considered a 7 without make-up nor anything added then I might be higher with make-up and everything.
SteveC80 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 But he has to fall in love with her first... and in order to do that she already needs to exceed a certain threshold. That works for both genders 99% of people need to have at least a minimum level of physical attraction for a person for it to work otherwise a connection with no lust is just a friendship
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