Awarth Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Anyway, i have posted this in the breaking up section also...coz i don't know where to classify this post..anyway, would like to have more opinions, so thks everyone! anyway, here's the post; Hi everyone, so i have a question i would like to ask regarding GIGS.. so assuming g.i.g.s is true and really exist, so at the earlier stage, the ex will start to do alot of guilt tripping right? So after they have blow out all of their guilt, and they seem to be relieved abt dumping their other half, what will they generally be feeling after this stage? Happy? thinking they can finally be happy with another guy? My 5 yrs gf broke up wif me for another guy for almost 6mths nuw...we r both young and i tink she is thinking that the grass is greener on the other side..anyway, so for around 5 mths after the break up, she will be initiating contact wif me once every few weeks. During a number of ocassions, she will tell me how sorry she is for dumping me, and wat a great guy i am..she even told me a few times how she cry when she missed me at night. So lately, i found out from one of my ex's fren that my ex has been telling everyone that she is very happy with the new guy and that she feel in love again. So i am thinking that maybe she is now at e stage where she dont feel guilty anymore rite? So what's nxt? wats e nxt stage? Thks everyone!
flitzanu Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 what exactly are you trying to find out? if she said she's happy with this new guy, then she's happy with him. there's no "disorder" for her wanting to break up with you and date someone else. you're trying to read between the lines and see something that isn't there. i'd suggest moving on with your life.
robkris8079 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 of course she is happy. Do you remember how the two of you were when you first got into the relationship? Well she feels exactly like that. If she has any remorse or second thoughts it will be after the honeymoon phase is over. By then I hope you are already healed up and possibly in a honeymoon phase of your own. As to why she is contacting you who knows. Maybe her honeymoon phase is already over and she needs a backup in case things aren't so great on the grass over there.
gibson Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Go read my latest post in my G.I.G.S. thread. Click Here I think it will answer some of your questions.
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