Michael225 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Need advice. Ex broke up with me in October, immediately got a new bf. almost as soon as they started dating she told me that she was going to break up with him because she loved me and wanted to be with me. I let that go on for 3 months. It was pathetic and I hate myself for doing it but I let her play me for so long. I think she was able to keep me on the hook so long because it was my first heartbreak and I truly believed everything she said including when she said that she wasn't having sex with him and that she only ever wanted to have sex with me (which was bull****). She sent me several texts telling me how she was going to break up with him over this period and I have them all saved on my phone. Now her boyfriends friends saw through all her bull**** and had realized that she was playing me. I have talked to them and they want me to show her bf these texts I have. If I do this she will lose all her friends. Her boyfriend will break up with her and she will be completely alone. It seems pretty heartless but it was heartless of her to play me for that long and she has not onced apologized. I'm usually quick to be the bigger person but I think it's so unfair that she has been able to be happy for the past 3 months while her playing me sent me into a depression that I am just climbing out of. I also don't hate her bf and I feel like he should know that his girlfriend is a liar. What should I do?
coltsfan1 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 No revenge is not the answer. Let the both of them be, her new bf is not your friend so let his friends look out for him. You move on and look out for yourself.
Lois Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I know you're hurt, but if I were you I'd leave them alone. Always remember: the best revenge is to live a good life. 4
Philosoraptor Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Revenge will bring nothing but a temporary high. Afterwards any decent person will look at the mess they caused and realize that they have ruined this persons' life. I had a chance for revenge, around $50,000. I looked inside and realized that even though I could have legally collected that (and many told me to take every penny for the hell I was put through) and it truly was owed to me... I let it go. Sure, it adds more burden to my own life; but ruining her life forever wouldn't have brought me any good feelings. Forgiveness and finding peace with what happened is truly the way to find happiness. 2
casanovadude81 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 You need to do what is best for you. Which in this case is probably forgetting all about her and her new bf.
flitzanu Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 she has a vagina. her new bf wants to be in her vagina. no amount of your words or "proof" will dissuade that, because she WILL convince him otherwise. trust me. not worth bothering.
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