Sugarkane Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 My brother is 19 and dropped out of his coarse. He isn't sure what he wants to do yet. He's been applying for several jobs. Recently his best friend committed suicide. It was a shock to everyone, including him. He didn't really talk about it. My family is alot like that. My dad took him to the funeral. He hasn't found work yet and has become pretty depressed and unmotivated. You know how it becomes a vicious cycle. Coz he doesn't have a job yet he sleeps in alot. My parent's don't help at all. My dad calls him lazy etc and yells and screams at him. My parents seem to be in denial. They think that depression doesn't really exist. And that going to a therapist is "weak" and " oh no next it'll be the mental ward". Stuff like that. My sister and I have tried just getting him out of the house. E.g coffee, movies, something to eat etc. But alot of the time he just has zero motivation. Not going out just makes you even more depressed. What to do? I mean I understand how he feels, when I was unemployed I got very very depressed quickly. Also my parents out dated beliefs don't help at all.
Lois Posted March 29, 2012 Posted March 29, 2012 (edited) You poor love, what an awful situation to be in. I think it's important to let your brother know that he can come to you and you are there for him any time of the day or night. You may find some help here: beyondblue: the national depression initiative It's a shame your parents can't see how serious this is. Is there anyone they would listen to? Someone who could get them to sit up and take notice? Your brother is blessed to have a loving sister like you. I wish you both all the best. Edited March 29, 2012 by Lois
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