budley12 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Im just wondering how long it took for you guys to get over your first love. We were together for 3years and had a rough break up 4months ago. It has been almost 7weeks of NC (initiated by me since being "friends" while he was dating someone new hurt too much) now and things are seeming a little better, yet I am still in love... Just wondering how long it took you guys to completely stop thinking about him and hoping to get back, and truly focusing on YOURSELF and being able to move on.
jerbear Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 First love is so hard, I do not even remember how long it took for me to snap out of it. It is definitely not overnight or days. To be honest, I had so many "first" loves. I still remember my "first BJ" from my childhood sweetie. So in my case, I never forgot. 1
coltsfan1 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 My high school sweetheart was my first love. She is a beautiful, smart, sexy woman and I was an animal. She left and should have, however if she stayed I would have never changed. She did what was best for us both, we are now friends. We never call or text, but if we see each other in public we talk. Her husband just knows me as a guy she went to school and prom with. I am sure he isn't stupid and understands we were children and now we are adults. At my age (early 30's) my first love and high school seem like a whole other life. As a man I have had deeper connections and love another gal so much more. But never forgot my first love. 1
ukyohero Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Just ended my first love 1 month ago. It was rather short, only 3 month. I broke up with my ex. Started NC right after, failed, tried to be friends, then she started NC again yesterday. Though it wasn't too long but there were so much memories. I do not love her or want to get back with her any more because we have totally different view on relationships. Probably will take a little more time for me to be completely out of it.
shayla Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 It took me years to get over him. I dated others, but he was still on my mind all the time. He still believes that I want to be with him, but at this point in my life, all I have for him is hello and goodbye.
xztjohn Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 define the word over that person. im kinda curious whee im at. i am little bitter wen i think about it and indifferent towards her. we broke up for 6 months now. last 3 months hardly anycontact, all of it initiated by her. i just ignore her attempts.
Author budley12 Posted March 27, 2012 Author Posted March 27, 2012 I just wish he would be out of my mind. I still think about him almost constantly and wish I could see him. How long does it take after a break up/NC to really start moving on and becoming happy again. I deleted him from my life (fbook, twitter, trying to avoid on campus, phone #) yet I want him besides me and to talk about his life. I just wish these feelings, pain, hopes would go away =(
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