Mitsubichi Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I have a girlfriend for about 5 months now and everything is going pretty sweet. I love her and i know for a fact she does too. (She tells me pretty much everyday) There is just 1 thing that drives me nuts.. And i mean, NUTS! She always tells me how guys try to hit on her and stuff, like.. Okay, she's being honest and all that but come on, i'm pretty sure she likes it. Yes, i do give her enough of attention, but sometimes i feel like that just isn't enough. She even told me which friend of mine she found attractive.. I know a few female friends of her, who i think are also attractive but i'd never say that in the way she says it.. She's like "**** is a very nice guy, he is soo attractive!" Yeah i know, i got her and i'm the one who she chose above all the other guys but.. seriously?! She knows it drives me crazy and i think she likes it a bit.. If i act like i don't care anymore would she stop doing it, or would she do it more to get a reaction?? (I already told her that i don't like it when she does that.. She laughed and told me i'm crazy and that she wouldn't cheat on me.. I trust her, but only for about 60% because of her behavior) I really "love" her.. Need help!! thank u!
gotye Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 she is totally trying to get you jealous for more attention to probably fill in insecurities of her own i learned from relationships, never do that unless it's something small... like I will admit a guy is attractive but not in a longing; i want him way. and as for being hit on... I will mention it if it's really awkward and a funny story, otherwise, why even make my bf jealous?
dasein Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Up to you whether you tolerate being manipulated in this way.
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