User987654 Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT][sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]I was looking for some advice…[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] Mygirlfriend and I broke up 3 months ago after dating for about 14-15 months…wewere perfectly happy for about 12-13 months, with limited if any fights. The last few months, stresses outside of ourrelationship caused us to fight a lot and led to me ending therelationship. I did so out of purefrustration and emotion. Looking back itwas a huge mistake, and making it worse was some of the things I said to herwhile doing so. She has since began tohang out with someone else…an old friend whom she works with. I am honestly not to worried about her newrelationship… but over the past 3months, I have over texted, I have begged, I have tried to manipulate…It hasbeen a disaster. She claims she stillloves me and says that she knows that if we are able to act like the people wewere the first 90% of the relationship, that we will end up back together. I guess what my questions are:[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]1.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] Is it ever to late, I have made the last 3months pretty dramatic and been all over the place, acted out of character…andbasically not been myself at all…Curious if there is ever a point of no returnfor 2 people who were talking marriage before the break-up occurred?[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]2.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]Regardlesswhether or not her and I ever date again…I really want to show her that I amstill the same person she fell in love with, but I noticed that I cant keepsaying that and not following through…is my best bet to shut up, not explain itand just do it?[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]3.[/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]Isit stupid to still have hope? She basicallytold me for 2 months after we broke up that she still thinks we would end uptogether…lately she has not said it, but I thinks it more because I bring it up24/7 and she needs space…Guess I am just looking for some advice…having a lot oftrouble committing to the no contact phase and I have made the road back verydifficult.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
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