Disenchantedly Yours Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 Hi guys, have you ever asked for a girl's number and never been serious about it? Do you just do it for fun? Get caught up in the moment? Or is this something you only ask for when you are really serious?
somedude81 Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I'd only ask for a number when I know that I want to see her again. 2
Imajerk17 Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I only ask for the number if I want to see her again. 2
Mantis Toboggan Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I've done it without serious intent. Sometimes it just feels like a polite way to end the conversation. Most recently, it was about 2am on the NYC subways. Me and this random girl were complaining about the train. We started chatting for a half hour, and I figure since we spent all this time talking, I should ask for her number. Just in case I ever wanted to meet up again. Then, the next morning, I just wasn't attracted enough to call her.
ThaWholigan Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I'd only ask for a number when I know that I want to see her again. I only ask for the number if I want to see her again. ^^^^^ I agree with all of this. However, serious intent may vary. I may not be attracted to her, but she may be a cool person to hang out with. Expansion of the social circle is always a good idea.
Oxy Moronovich Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I'd only ask for a number when I know that I want to see her again. I only ask for the number if I want to see her again. I think most guys agree with this. I'm positive Mantis Tobboggan is in the minority. I've talked to many guys about asking for a number. Not one has ever said he's done it to be polite.
Koaks Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 Females do it to be "polite" ...bunch of selfish bitches! 1
USMCHokie Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Well, sometimes it just seems like a natural next step in a conversation or interaction with a girl...that is, you've built enough rapport with her that you might "get caught up in the moment" and just ask for the sake of asking...or alcohol has taken control and you ask anyway... But I do agree with the majority that there must be at least a modicum of interest in seeing her again...
jobaba Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Hi guys, have you ever asked for a girl's number and never been serious about it? Do you just do it for fun? Get caught up in the moment? Or is this something you only ask for when you are really serious? I've definitely done it just to do it. And women have definitely given me their number without having any interest in me whatsoever. Of this I'm sure.
USMCHokie Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 And women have definitely given me their number without having any interest in me whatsoever. Of this I'm sure. Absolutely...that's why getting someone's number nowadays doesn't really mean sh*t...
Desensitized Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I tend to ask if I'm at least 1% interested lol. Girls have friends, and those friends may be hot :D:D
gaius Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Expecting a call Disenchantedly? I've asked before just to see if I could get it.
Feelsgoodman Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I usually ask for phone numbers when I get bored and have nothing better to do. Months later, when she has forgotten all about me, I would call from a blocked number and, faking a British accent, introduce myself as actor Daniel Craig and demand immediate room service. Confuses the hell out of them.
RonChalant Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 (edited) Yea sometimes I just ask because I know I can get it, or because I'm bored. Sometimes I have every intention of calling...but never get around to it. 3 weeks later you see the number in your phone and it's like...who the hells name/number is this lol. Hell as ahole ish as it sounds I've gotten a few numbers just because she had a nice rack #KanyeShrug In my defense I used to have ZERO self confidence. Then I realized, I'm a pretty cute guy and women shouldn't be so scary...so I'm just getting used to all the attention I am able to get Edited March 28, 2012 by RonChalant
thatone Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 Yea sometimes I just ask because I know I can get it, or because I'm bored. Sometimes I have every intention of calling...but never get around to it. 3 weeks later you see the number in your phone and it's like...who the hells name/number is this lol. Hell as ahole ish as it sounds I've gotten a few numbers just because she had a nice rack #KanyeShrug In my defense I used to have ZERO self confidence. Then I realized, I'm a pretty cute guy and women shouldn't be so scary...so I'm just getting used to all the attention I am able to get lol, yep. scrolling through my phone right now there's a debbie, holly, rachel, and susan that i have NFI who they are. then there's a jennifer and ashley that i remotely remember but on second consideration after doing some facebook snooping have no desire to speak to ever again. so the answer is yeah, men will pretty commonly fish for phone numbers and never call them.
Author Disenchantedly Yours Posted March 28, 2012 Author Posted March 28, 2012 Expecting a call Disenchantedly? I've asked before just to see if I could get it. Lol no. I am not expecting a call myself. A guy did ask for my number but I wasn't too into him and to be hoenst, he didn't really seem to into me so I just ignored his question. It just didn't seem too serious to me. Usually when a guy asks for my number, it was with intent. I like men that have intent. Not men that are willy nilly and silly. 1
counterman Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 When I ask for a girl's number, it is because I do want to see her again. Not necessarily for a date though, could be just as friends. She'll know when I'm asking her out on a date:p
Author Disenchantedly Yours Posted March 28, 2012 Author Posted March 28, 2012 Yea sometimes I just ask because I know I can get it, or because I'm bored. Sometimes I have every intention of calling...but never get around to it. 3 weeks later you see the number in your phone and it's like...who the hells name/number is this lol. Hell as ahole ish as it sounds I've gotten a few numbers just because she had a nice rack #KanyeShrug In my defense I used to have ZERO self confidence. Then I realized, I'm a pretty cute guy and women shouldn't be so scary...so I'm just getting used to all the attention I am able to get I don't really see how your previous zero confidence state justifies treating women carelessly. You do realize your actions are part of what contributes to women being bitter toward men right? Your actions and choices matter. You are teaching women something specific about men. I really think this attitude about treating people how you feel like treating them without any respect is lame. Sorry.
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