nick d Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 Well my friends, today I finally caved.. I wrote her to find out how she was doing after going 20 days NC. I guess I did it because I felt guilty because I met a new girl this weekend and I had sex with her.. Either way I wish I wouldn't have wrote her because now I'm back to day 1 and thinking of her again! I was doing so good too!!!
TaraMaiden Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 We really should have a sub-forum in coping, titled "What happened to me after I broke no Contact..." Because there are so many poor broken-hearted lads and lasses who insist it will be ok, they just want to *insert reason here* because they're so sure it will be ok - and then they re-post deeply regretting having done so..... I'm sorry you had to find out the hard way..... 2
Author nick d Posted March 26, 2012 Author Posted March 26, 2012 We really should have a sub-forum in coping, titled "What happened to me after I broke no Contact..." Because there are so many poor broken-hearted lads and lasses who insist it will be ok, they just want to *insert reason here* because they're so sure it will be ok - and then they re-post deeply regretting having done so..... I'm sorry you had to find out the hard way..... Yeah she did write back though.. But made her life seem perfect and she's "so happy". Shouldn't have wrote her :/
Philosoraptor Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 Yeah she did write back though.. But made her life seem perfect and she's "so happy". Shouldn't have wrote her :/ Her life may be perfect now as a single person. She may be doing what many do which is put up a happy front with the ex to not show weakness. Either way, if she is happy then be happy for her. If she is putting up a front then hope that she finds her healing. But do not do anything which only results in pain.
lilyblue Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 Well my friends, today I finally caved.. I wrote her to find out how she was doing after going 20 days NC. I guess I did it because I felt guilty because I met a new girl this weekend and I had sex with her.. Either way I wish I wouldn't have wrote her because now I'm back to day 1 and thinking of her again! I was doing so good too!!! You were obviously still thinking about her if you wrote her. 20 days isn't that long, it's not that much of a step back - just move forward with whatever you feel works best for you.
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