xztjohn Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 she pretty mch left me for another guy first 3 months of te break up was so much drama theres was manipulation lies and shiz coming from her part. its been 6 months now since the break up the last 3 months was her texting me random stuff like i hope you are doing well, i hope you are happy and i receive unknown calls. she called me once about bio hw which i helped her by textig cause i felt guilty triugh text. her questions were irrevelant. her last she called me twice and textig saying can i ask u a bio question i dont want to fail. i just ignored like i hve been doing these 2 month and a half. i hope we can be civil one day and talk and tell her how badly she handled the break up and give her a piece of my mind. i am pretty over her, sort of. so is it better to continue ignoring her forever? or should i respond to her next time? anyone got any first hand experience on this?
budley12 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 ive gone NC with my ex 7weeks ago. It sucks, but at the same time I feel I am finding myself again. I am also not worrying about checking my phone to see if he texted or hoping it was him texting. I am my own person now and nothing can hold me back from doing the things I want. Sure, I would love to be back with him, even if we could just be civil and be friends. But at the moment I know that if I were to hang with him I would still want to hold his hand and hold each other and hope for "us". Until those feelings are completely gone I feel that NC is the best thing for me, and possibly you.
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