worgen455 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 (edited) My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now. She's always been moody and indecisive about us and well pretty well anything in general. Me and her kids often have to kind of watch ourselves because it often times seems like any little thing we do will set her off and she will be mad for a bit. She spends money like it's water then complains about not ever having enough to pay her bills. I help pay for food and such but I have my own apartment that I pay for as well so I don't have the money to pay for all the food. My apartment and bills and her bills as well. Which that makes her mad because I'm not willing to move in when she's so indecisive about everything. Now she's been in the hospital for 2 weeks. She was diagnosed with a rare form of pneumonia. Of course I spend all my free time there and stay the nights sleeping on the concrete floor because they didn't have a spare bed and the chair they had in there wouldn't recline. She got out for a day and I ended up taking her back in there that night and she's been there ever since. Once again I have stayed with her. When I'm not there she texts me about that she's lonely and misses me. Up until yesterday she has talked about how she would like us to get married one day. Then yesterday morning I left at 7am to go get cleaned up and go pick her daughter up. Her daughter has spent the last week with her father in Iowa and he was driving her back down and was picking her up at 10am. So anyways at 8 she texts me saying I left early and told her again I wanted to get cleaned up before leaving to go get her daughter. Then all of a sudden I'm a crappy boyfriend for not being there and that she feels I'm just a friend divying her up between her family to keep her company. Her family barely visits or calls. That conversation was short lived and I went picked her daughter up and ran a few errands I needed to do and was there by 2. Once again she is going off on me and saying I'm a "maelstrom of negative energy" I remained calm and talked to her like I always would and she fell asleep. I stayed and later in the night she said she missed her girls so I went and picked them up from their grandmothers and brought them up. Their grandmother wanted a night alone so I took them back to my girlfriend's house and we stayed there last night. Her youngest wanted to spend the day with her mom in the hospital and since I stay up there anyways we went up there. We was there for an hour and she asked us to leave. Their grandmother called me a few minutes later and asked what was going on with my girlfriend because she was angry with her as well. I simply said I had no idea. I already determined she has some anger issues but I'm really starting to wonder if she is bi polar or borderline or something. I don't know if that's what it is or if I just truly am a bad boyfriend. I feel like I'm there anytime they need me. Everyone in the family thinks I'm the best boyfriend she's ever had just the way she acts makes me wonder if it's her or me. I've tried talking to her about this stuff before but it seems to just want to turn it into an argument. Any advice or comments? thank you Edited March 25, 2012 by worgen455
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