udolipixie Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 Females have double standards. Its ok for them to be virgins but I'm the worst thing in the ****ing world becuase I'm a 42 year old virgin who's longest relationsip was three weeks. People tend to have double standards. Some guys and gals have those double standards of it's okay for a gal to be a virgin but not a guy. It's not just gals who hate on male virgins there are guys who do so as well. There's double standards dealing with sex that gals have to endure as well. Plenty of guys it's okay for them to be sluts but a gal being a slut is bad. As for the worst thing in the world bit it doesn't seem that you hold that different opinion of women either.
udolipixie Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 If you were a virgin at 42 years old you wouldn't be too happy. Yeah I would as I'm happy now and the only change would be that I'm much older. Again if your so unhappy with the virginity deal: if it's that you haven't had sex go to a prostitute in a legal area if it's that women don't want to have sex with you no one is obligated to do so with the exception of prostitutes in certain cases. To me rationalizing the cause of anger tends to work wonders. You gals find it ok for males to be sluts. Some gals find it ok just like some guys do. When a female finds out I'm a 42 year old virgin theres a look of terror in her eyes like I'm a monster. Perhaps it's because of the way she found out going by your posts it would seem her finding out wouldn't likely be in a pleasant way.
udolipixie Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 (edited) I used to be younger and happier. When I was 23 I got my first girlfriend , first kiss, first cuddle, then she dumped me for a hunk who hated my guts. It was a very nice two weeks. She told the hunk that I was a placeholder. I didn't date again for 6 years. Then the virginity and inexperience ruined chance after chance. The women ****ing hated it and disappeared when told. I argued with at least 5 of them over it. Why argue? They were no longer interested or attracted to you and aren't obligated to dole you out relationships or be with you solely because you want them to. I'm left at 42 unhappy and angry and hopeless. Unhappy: Why? If you don't like yourself try self-improvement * personal development If you don't like your life focus on what you can change and work on it (activities, hobbies, skills, talents, experiences, interests, knowledge) If you don't like your surroundings get and further your social circle Angry: Why? If it's because you're a virgin there are prostitutes in legal areas If it's because women don't want to have sex with you no one is obligated to dole you out sex with the exception of prostitutes in certain cases If it's because women don't want a relationship with you no one is obligated to dole you out relationships Hopeless: Why? If it's because you can't get a gf women aren't obligated to dole you out relationships If it's because you feel lonely try to learn how to be alone without being lonely, realize there's plenty of men & women in your situation, and look to family if you have any You don't know what it's like to be 42 years old. It isn't just the virginity. I wanted to have a family once upon a time. Now I'm 42 and look and feel 50. There's surrogates and adoption. You don't necessarily need a partner to raise children. It's too late If you think it is. As you're in your 40s your sperm is most likely of far lower quality as men tend to lose quality then quantity however plenty of men older than you have biological children. and women have a hatred towards virgins Some women hate male virgins. Some men hate male virgins, Seems you're only focused on applying negatives to women. that you'll never understand what it's like to be on the other side. I can understand hatred directed to oneself from others as plenty of men have a hatred towards women simply for having a vagina. It's a big joke to women and then they can get all teary eyed when they find out. It's ****ing scary. It's a big joke to some women and men. Again seems you're only focused on applying negatives to women. What do you mean teary eyed when they find out? There's already plenty of women living relationship-less and sexless lives they don't want. Edited March 27, 2012 by udolipixie
udolipixie Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 It's too ****ing late. Women hate inexperienced virgins at 22 in today's dating. Some women do. Some women don't. Do you think there's a single women on the whole planet would want to be seen with a 42 year virgin man no matter why he was a virgin. I don't. I do and I've met, seen, and know a few. There's plenty of gals that don't care or will overlook that. I've even for my own amusement introduced virgin and inexperienced guys bemoaning how gals don't want them to such gals. What occurred in all of the cases was that the gals didn't meet the guy's standards. The issue tends not to be that gals don't want them but that the gals they want who fit their standards don't want them. Prostitutes are illegal in Kansas City Hence why I stated in legal areas as one can most likely travel to a legal area. and what is having sex with a strange woman costing me a small fortutune really going to do for me? Get rid of your virginity something you seem to be bemoaning. It isn't real sex. It's sex that will get rid of your virginity something you seem quite angry at having and constantly & consistently bemoan having. It's a way to steal my money at hundreds an hour. It's also sex that will get rid of your virginity something you seem quite angry at having and constantly & consistently bemoan having. No one is obligated to do anything but why can't just one overloook the inexperience? not even one will do it. They can if they chose to. They're not obligated to chose to do so. Perhaps they don't want to overlook their attraction and aren't obligated to voerlook things to make your romatnic/sexual pursuits easier because while it may mean getting what you want it may also mean they're not getting what they want. It's like asking why don't guys who aren't attracted to overweight gals overlook an obese gal's weight. There aren't men and women in my sitution. Everyone mocks it. The whole ****ing world finds it funny. Wow just wow. That's some real reality bending there. Perhaps it's best suited to get into some therapy.
serial muse Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 When a female finds out I'm a 42 year old virgin theres a look of terror in her eyes like I'm a monster. OK, so after careful analysis of your posts on here, what I'm getting is that you're a virgin at...wait, let me double-check...yes, 42 years old. Do I have that right? Anything I'm missing here? I could respond more seriously to your pain but I don't even know if you really have any. It's not clear what you want from the site aside from repeating this refrain. Ask for help, and you might find that it would be offered. Now it is time for you to call me something that will be asterisked. Carry on. Sigh. 1
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LexiB Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 It's too ****ing late. Women hate inexperienced virgins at 22 in today's dating. Do you think there's a single women on the whole planet would want to be seen with a 42 year virgin man no matter why he was a virgin. I don't. Prostitutes are illegal in Kansas City and what is having sex with a strange woman costing me a small fortutune really going to do for me? It isn't real sex. It's a way to steal my money at hundreds an hour. No one is obligated to do anything but why can't just one overloook the inexperience? not even one will do it. Rob, by your own account you are "socially awkward" and haven't interacted with many women, so how do you know this? Really, how many women have you even dated? Not trying to be mean, just making the point that you're using very little data to form a sweeping conclusion about the entire female population (re: that no woman will be willing to overlook your inexperience). The root of your problem, imo appears to be your social skills. Instead of spending "hundreds" hiring a prostitute, would you at least consider investing in therapy, or a social coach, a life coach...some form of professional help to get you out of your shell & work on your anger issues?
Author Shaun-Dro Posted March 27, 2012 Author Posted March 27, 2012 ^^^^ What a load of incoherent crap. I have NO problem with ANYONE'S preferences. Sometimes I take issue with people here on LS who are complaining ad infinitum about being alone, when their preferences are so specific or unrealistic that they ensure the person will always be alone. Otherwise, have at it. I have my preferences too. Also, I NEVER whine. You're always whining.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I certainly bitch, sometimes rant, I get outraged, converse, deplore, defend, celebrate, joke, refute, agree, conjecture, insult, and more - but whine? No. FYI, here is the definition of WHINING: 1. To utter a plaintive, high-pitched, protracted sound, as in pain, fear, supplication, or complaint. 2. To complain or protest in a childish fashion. 3. To produce a sustained noise of relatively high pitch: jet engines whining.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted March 27, 2012 Author Posted March 27, 2012 I certainly bitch, sometimes rant, I get outraged, converse, deplore, defend, celebrate, joke, refute, agree, conjecture, insult, and more - but whine? No. FYI, here is the definition of WHINING: I'm sure if we had to listen to your voice over the telephone, we'd have to put earplugs on eternally. Now go knit a sweater.
Easyguy14 Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 You're always whining. there does seem to be alot of protesting on this thread. I dont think men staring at women is such a big deal. its been going on for centuries.
udolipixie Posted March 28, 2012 Posted March 28, 2012 there does seem to be alot of protesting on this thread. I dont think men staring at women is such a big deal. its been going on for centuries. So is your logic that things that have been going on for centuries aren't a big deal?
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