Sophie99 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 (edited) As some of you might know, complete no contact with my ex is pretty much impossible, we share classes together and 99% of our friends are mutual. (We were in a 2 year relationship, and he broke up with me 2 months ago) Anyway, for the past month I have been going no contact as much as possible, no texting, no facebook, twitter, nothing outside of what is unavoidable. About a week ago, my ex contacted me, saying that he needed to tell me something, it sounded pretty serious. So I decided to return his texts. He has only told me so far but.. It turns out he's gay. Yep. So, he's had no one to speak to except myself, so I thought I should probably be there for him. I thought (wrongly), that what he told me would mean that I would feel less hurt by what happened. But.. I feel worse for speaking to him, as I have along the way found out a lot of what he's getting up to without me, and that still hurts. Now I've broken no contact, how can I get back into it? Should I even? Since he has no one else to talk to about this? Would love to hear your take.. Thanks x Edited March 25, 2012 by Sophie99
cflowers32 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I would have thought that would help too. I think you should tell him honestly that it's just too painful for you because you still have feelings for him. Maybe suggest he find a "coming out" web site like this one to get support. I feel for ya, I know we are all here trying so hard to protect ourselves. *hug* 1
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