lso802 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I asked a girl out on a second date yesterday morning. Next morning still no response. Haven't dated in a long while, but usually girls would tell me yes or no right away. Does this mean she's just not as interested?
LexiB Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Do ladies respond to date requests right away if interested? Yes. Unless 1) an emergency occurred, 2) they've broken/lost their phone and can't reply or 3) they like to play games & follow the doctrine of "why men love bitches" or some other silly little rule book...in which case, all bets are off.
oaks Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 or 3) they like to play games & follow the doctrine of "why men love bitches" or some other silly little rule book...in which case, all bets are off run away. Fixed that for you. 2
jerbear Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 So Isotope 802, what did you do? Did you? 1) texted her 2) emailed her 3) wrote a note to her 4) "called" her and left voicemail If you called or asked her in person and she changed the subject then she is not interested.
Author lso802 Posted March 25, 2012 Author Posted March 25, 2012 I call people all the time, but there are a few that prefer texting which includes this girl. Ah well. Thanks everyone. Means it's a no go then. Sad panda.
PhillyDude Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Do ladies respond to date requests right away if interested? Yes. Unless 1) an emergency occurred, 2) they've broken/lost their phone and can't reply or 3) they like to play games & follow the doctrine of "why men love bitches" or some other silly little rule book...in which case, all bets are off. Please stop with the emergency BS before I throw up
LexiB Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 Please stop with the emergency BS before I throw up <<<passes garbage can to PD>>>
jerbear Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I call people all the time, but there are a few that prefer texting which includes this girl. Ah well. Thanks everyone. Means it's a no go then. Sad panda. I know that feeling. Why do I know the girl prefers text? The girls that prefer texts are interesting, she told me she is afraid to be put on the spot chats. Good luck with others, you're young and there is the future.
PhillyDude Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 <<<passes garbage can to PD>>> When a guy doesn't respond it means he is ****ing another girl When a girl doesn't respond it means her mother fell down a flight of stairs and had to be rushed to the hospital 2
dasein Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 OP if you limit your asking out to calls and face to face, you won't be left wondering in the future, regardless of whether the girl is generally responsive to texts or not. While we are at it, if a girl or anyone else tells you "I have to let you know" when invited to do something, and then doesn't get back to you very soon thereafter, write them off entirely for any further invitations. When someone asks someone to do things, it isn't an opportunity to wait til the last minute, measure all possible invitations and then pick the "best" one. That's the way many low quality people conduct their social lives. Leave them to it and out of your life and keep yourself sane.
LexiB Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 When a guy doesn't respond it means he is ****ing another girl When a girl doesn't respond it means her mother fell down a flight of stairs and had to be rushed to the hospital Right, ORRRRRR 2) they've broken/lost their phone and can't reply or 3) they like to play games & follow the doctrine of "why men love bitches" or some other silly little rule book...in which case, all bets are off. I love how you glossed over the other options I spelled out just so you can get on your Men vs. Women soapbox again. At least you don't hide your bias.
JohnP82 Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 If a girl is really interested, her actions would dispel any worry you have. If you are worried or unsure about her interest then it is not high enough.
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