nearlyman Posted June 13, 2004 Posted June 13, 2004 Right, where to start? I've been out of the dating game for a while so bit unsure how to read signals! OK, went on a Barbados Virgin Airways 2 nighter ... Got there Sat, on the Sun, we all went out on a katamaran for the day, loads of booze and stuff. I got sitting next to a nice hostie, her and I were getting on well, chatting about stuff, having a laugh. I kept making her drinks, she would ask me to go for a swim ... asked me to sit with her on different bits on the boat! This was all in the day. That evening, we all went out to a nice restaurant .. I sat next to her and we had loads of laughs, sharing some grub and stuff. Another of my mates at the table remarked later that we looked like a couple and looked like we were having a really good time! Anyway, flight back next evening .. I ambled down to the galley thinking it would be quiet and I could get her number, well the crew were having a nightmare with passengers .. so I felt awkward asking her in front of the other girls. She walked out of the galley and I sort of followed .. I got her on her own. I mumbled, stammered (pathetic really that as I go to her home town a lot (100 miles away), could I have her number and we could go out, maybe with mates of mine there. She said yes straight away, seemed happy to give me her number, said she liked the area I suggested and that she didn't know many people where she was. Anyway, left it 2 days and sent her a funny txt, mutual joke about my tomato tan and waterlogged watch (they chucked me in hotel pool) She sent one back a day later, nice long cheeky reply with an 'take care (name) x' at the end. I've sent one in reply to that, but think she's on another trip. My question lads, IS .. do you think she's interested or just being polite, and whats my next move, phone call, more txts etc? Ta for any help
masked_man Posted June 14, 2004 Posted June 14, 2004 Well my philosophy is, if you never go, you'll never know. Just call her and ask her out. She certainly seems friendly enough. I wouldn't leave it too long though, it seems she gets to meet quite a few people by way of her job, she might find someone else if you're not fast! Good luck!
chocoholic Posted June 14, 2004 Posted June 14, 2004 Give it a shot. She may be interested and playing hard to get. Women are known to do that. Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
GOFORIT Posted June 14, 2004 Posted June 14, 2004 Go for it man!!! Just don't call her too much, we girls like the chase...the exciting flirting...so keep it cheeky, keep it light. It definitely sounds like she's interested. Your trip sounded so much fun! But if she didn't like you - I can tell you right now that she wouldn't have replied. She wouldn't even have given you her number!!! I am also a fan of Chocoholic and Masked Man's mottos - if you don't give it a shot, you'll never know!! Good luck!
Author nearlyman Posted June 14, 2004 Author Posted June 14, 2004 Thanks guys and gals .. you're all right, I need to bite the bullet and do some talking
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