SoMuchLove Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 So my ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We have been no contact. I know he has a championship game tomorrow night and I was thinking of showing up to see him play. I think it could go either way. . .either he will be touched that I care and want to show support. . or he will think I'm a pathetic loser who can't get over him. Also, will he think I'm stalking him? I really miss him, but don't know the right way to approach him. Thoughts anyone!?!?!?
Philosoraptor Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 So my ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We have been no contact. I know he has a championship game tomorrow night and I was thinking of showing up to see him play. I think it could go either way. . .either he will be touched that I care and want to show support. . or he will think I'm a pathetic loser who can't get over him. Also, will he think I'm stalking him? I really miss him, but don't know the right way to approach him. Thoughts anyone!?!?!? I gamble stalker as he hasn't contacted you at all... so showing up randomly might be a bit forward if you're not talking whatsoever. 2
flitzanu Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 I gamble stalker as he hasn't contacted you at all... so showing up randomly might be a bit forward if you're not talking whatsoever. agreed. he isn't going to be "touched" that you showed up. at least i wouldn't be touched if an ex i'm not speaking to showed up where i was at, for any reason. 1
jennisfora Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 i think you all ready know the answer, so much love...i feel for you, but i think you may need a really good distraction, maybe go to the movies with a friend, or leave town for a day or two. something that will not include any thoughts about the ex. you have to resist the obsessive urges or you will come off like a stalker, if not become one. *hugs*
EgoJoe Posted March 26, 2012 Posted March 26, 2012 So my ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We have been no contact. I know he has a championship game tomorrow night and I was thinking of showing up to see him play. I think it could go either way. . .either he will be touched that I care and want to show support. . or he will think I'm a pathetic loser who can't get over him. Also, will he think I'm stalking him? I really miss him, but don't know the right way to approach him. Thoughts anyone!?!?!? I don't think you are a stalker but still don't go.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 People: When a person posts on March 24, telling of a game "tomorrow night"... it doesn't matter if on March 26 you're posting your opinions and advice on whether she should go to said game. Furthermore, you cannot "gamble" on that game on the day after it happened!!!
jennisfora Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 oh, somuchlove knew what reaction she would get, just like she knew what reaction she would get in the thread about setting up a fake profile to fake her ex out. true, the game has came and went, lol. guess i fail at reading comprehension.
cflowers32 Posted March 27, 2012 Posted March 27, 2012 I don't like games. I just want to be real, and keep it that way. My side of the street I want to remain as clean as I can keep it. I value what I had with him and I value how I feel for him. It would be short lived and probably backfire. There would have been no point. Games are no good.
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