SoMuchLove Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 So my ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We have been no contact. I know he has a championship game tomorrow night and I was thinking of showing up to see him play. I think it could go either way. . .either he will be touched that I care and want to show support. . or he will think I'm a pathetic loser who can't get over him. Also, will he think I'm stalking him? I really miss him, but don't know the right way to approach him. Thoughts anyone!?!?!?
mike588 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 So my ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We have been no contact. I know he has a championship game tomorrow night and I was thinking of showing up to see him play. I think it could go either way. . .either he will be touched that I care and want to show support. . or he will think I'm a pathetic loser who can't get over him. Also, will he think I'm stalking him? I really miss him, but don't know the right way to approach him. Thoughts anyone!?!?!? Do NOT show up at the game! Please don't. Go No Contact...let him wonder about you.
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Do NOT go; he is your ex; why would you show up?
pie2 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Based on your previous thread, I'd say that a part of you recognizes that you might not be making the most healthy decisions regarding your ex. I know you're in pain...just remember that you will find fullfilment down the road, even if it doesn't include him.
blotter Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Why don't you leave the poor ****ing guy alone. 1
cflowers32 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Do NOT show up at the game! Please don't. Go No Contact...let him wonder about you. Before I read any further posts, it's been two months. I think the thing that gets me is that after "months" of NC for people on this site, they still have hope. That's what I feel bad about. I think once it's been no NC for months, it IS over, so stopping by to see him play is a nice gesture. Say hello, good game, and leave. Good luck to you, I know it sucks to be walking through all of this.
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 2 months may as well be 2 days--it's still new; showing up is like breaking nc; no reason to go
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