mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I couldn't go out with someone shorter than I though. I think it would be difficult. I'm 4' 10"..... Yah you'd REALLY have to go out of your way to go out with someone shorter than you.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Whatever you say...its not like I havent come across your type before. Young, defiant, and swears they are more mature than they really are. Yeah so you've come across 21 year olds who've had stuck perceptions since childhood, been called an old soul, own a house & car, have a career not a job, 2 degrees, volunteer loads, and traveled the world? Down the line and years go by and they mature and change just like everyone else does. If you say everyones personalities are the same, why all of a sudden do you think you can be so different from the rest of us? You cant have it both ways hun. Same nature doesn't mean same actions there tends to be restrictions by law, conscience, morals, or opportunities. As well as same nature doesn't mean same experiences. Are you aware that I said baseline people's nature are pretty similar so personality doesn't differ much? Not sure how you got everyone is the same and have the same personality or why whenever I bring up what I said you still stick with that. Especially since I've even stated I've met a few atypical people in my age group and younger but the most are in their 50s and above. Seems you often read what you want. Again another case of what I said is not what you interpreted.
kaylan Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Again....whatever you say I digress....its pointless continuing with you. I have come across people who have accomplished less and more than you by your age and they agree that as they got older, they matured and changed as adults. They also would agree that people are unique and have complex personalities.
TaraMaiden Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 OFF TOPIC: Oh goody! Brand new day, brand new moron to ignore! Back to topic!! when i pack my suitcases for a holiday/pay bills/go shopping/do the laundry/cook dinner, I occasionally have the thought going through my head.... "Shouldn't my mum be doing this...?"
mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Whatever you say...its not like I havent come across your type before. Young, defiant, and swears they are more mature than they really are. Down the line and years go by and they mature and change just like everyone else does. If you say everyones personalities are the same, why all of a sudden do you think you can be so different from the rest of us? You cant have it both ways hun. I know this is irrelevant but reminds me of a verse by Bishop Lamont song called grow up where he says "A teenage life where you think you know everything, about everything but don't know a damn thang" I still feel that way at times like I have life somewhat figured out but I still am finding out that I still don't know it all yet haha. It's a sick song, you should check it out on you tube if you get a chance.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 That is highly unlikely, I doubt in elementary you had any relationship,financial and otherwise perspectives on "adult" situations. I've did and I had plenty. Pretty observant, early reader, and I loved the library. I've never met a child in elementary who could express a proper perspective on "adult" situations which in an abrasive comparison is what I meant by once you've reached 30. Different experiences. I've met 7 that could express financial perspectives I've met 2 that could express relationships perspectives. *Interstingly they both came from homosexual households* I've met countless that could express drugs and sex. Pretty wonky to me. Obviously will have similar mind sets from 21-30 than elementary-21 but what you will obtain is overall wisdom which will influence and enhance your perspectives. Hope that makes better sense. I already got your message and understood it I highly doubt it applies to me.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Again....whatever you say I digress....its pointless continuing with you. Again whatever you say with your insults and condescending remarks. Pretty pointless in continuing with you as you've presumed to know more about myself than I do, what will happen to me and what I'll do. Yet you label me the know-it-all. I have come across people who have accomplished less and more than you by your age and they agree that as they got older, they matured and changed as adults. They also would agree that people are unique and have complex personalities. So others agreeing to your mindset makes it correct. Interesting. I also know myself I'm pretty stagnant. I also got this mature and change bit from others: in middle school- never happened. in high school- never happened. in college- never happened. Quite interesting that it came from outsiders who didn't know me. Based on my knowledge of myself and my experiences I highly doubt that this whole mature and grow bit applies to me in the way most people tend to think it applies to them. As the whole mature/grow is essentially to me being comfortable in your own skin and knowing who you are and what you want. Something I've had since 6. I would say my friend's hippie "telepathic" astrologer aunt has a better read on me than outsiders who presume the you'll gain wisdom/change/mature stance.
mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I've did and I had plenty. Pretty observant, early reader, and I loved the library. Different experiences. I've met 7 that could express financial perspectives I've met 2 that could express relationships perspectives. *Interstingly they both came from homosexual households* I've met countless that could express drugs and sex. Pretty wonky to me. I already got your message and understood it I highly doubt it applies to me. I still don't understand how in elementary school you understood the concept of relationship mechanics and financial responsibilities ie. mortgage, car insurance, bills etc. I don't know any 10 year olds that could even begin to relate to those topics so unless you were concerned about car payments, house payments and paying utilities in elementary I'm sure your perspective was more concentrated on playing with barbie dolls most likely. I don't think there are any kids that can grasp the concept of what it takes as an adult to make ends meet.
kaylan Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Man you just love talking dont you? And no, others agreeing with me does not make me right...hearing the experiences of elders who have actually lived life hold higher value than the "know-it-all-ness" of some 21 year old kid. Thats the point.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 OFF TOPIC: Back to topic!! when i pack my suitcases for a holiday/pay bills/go shopping/do the laundry/cook dinner, I occasionally have the thought going through my head.... "Shouldn't my mum be doing this...?" Thought the topic was importance of a guy's height not your "occasional" thoughts on mom should be doing this. By him being a troll does that mean that his claims against the OP were false?
mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I already got your message and understood it I highly doubt it applies to me. So your saying that as you get older you will not obtain wisdom and insight on specific situations because you've already obtained said wisdom albeit you're only 21 ? Makes perfect sense.
kaylan Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I still don't understand how in elementary school you understood the concept of relationship mechanics and financial responsibilities ie. mortgage, car insurance, bills etc. I don't know any 10 year olds that could even begin to relate to those topics so unless you were concerned about car payments, house payments and paying utilities in elementary I'm sure your perspective was more concentrated on playing with barbie dolls most likely. I don't think there are any kids that can grasp the concept of what it takes as an adult to make ends meet. Shes super unique and different from other young people. She was very mature at 10 years old and didnt mature any further. She was already an adult mentally at 10 years of age:rolleyes: I find it hard to by this when I look over her posting history. Not to mention the hypocrisy (in past posts) of her calling men more strict about their long list standards when shes super strict about this whole height thing.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I still don't understand how in elementary school you understood the concept of relationship mechanics and financial responsibilities ie. mortgage, car insurance, bills etc. [/quoteS] Parents. I don't know any 10 year olds that could even begin to relate to those topics so unless you were concerned about car payments, house payments and paying utilities in elementary I was interested as I stated I'm pretty observant so I either asked or lgot the answer myself. I'm sure your perspective was more concentrated on playing with barbie dolls most likely. no just no I don't think there are any kids that can grasp the concept of what it takes as an adult to make ends meet. I disagree as I've met and know plenty of kids who not only know what it takes but actually contribute to making the ends meet.
mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Man you just love talking dont you? And no, others agreeing with me does not make me right...hearing the experiences of elders who have actually lived life hold higher value than the "know-it-all-ness" of some 21 year old kid. Thats the point. It's almost like saying life experience doesn't matter whether young or old. If you can obtain all the wisdom at 21 you're good to go for the rest of your life haha. Hell I still talk to my grandma and get humbled on specific topics and get great insight from someone who has "been through the ****" and has experienced it. There is no greater teacher for life lessons than experience itself. It's almost like in school reading about the theory but it's not until you put the theory into action before you can experience the whole concept. 1
PlumPrincess Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Again....whatever you say I digress....its pointless continuing with you. I have come across people who have accomplished less and more than you by your age and they agree that as they got older, they matured and changed as adults. They also would agree that people are unique and have complex personalities. Really? I haven't. I'm impressed that she managed to buy a house at 21. How do you do that?
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 hearing the experiences of elders who have actually lived life hold higher value than the "know-it-all-ness" of some 21 year old kid. Yeah considering I own a house & car, have a career, have 2 degrees, traveled the world, volunteered loads, have a huge social circle, and know loads of people I have plenty of experiences to me. I've even met quite a few 30s-40s year olds that I've had more experiences than. Age doesn't mean experience or wisdom as plenty people exist not live. It tends to mean more of a chance at getting such things. My supposed know-it-all-ness comes from my belief in myself and doubt that my perceptions will do as others say. Or my notion that people have pretty similar natures and personality doesn't tend to differ much. Quite interesting I think know-it-all would suit you with your presumptions about me, presuming to know more about myself than I do, what will happen to me and what I'll do.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Really? I haven't. I'm impressed that she managed to buy a house at 21. How do you do that? Piggy bank. I never had much use for money as a child or teenager. Pageant, modeling, baby sitting, birthday, holiday, reunion, graduation, allowance, bartender in college money all adds up.
kaylan Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Really? I haven't. I'm impressed that she managed to buy a house at 21. How do you do that? It doesnt take a lot to know a lot of people. Ive met quite a few people in my time, and based on the area they lived in, it wasnt hard for them to put some money together to buy a house since they have done well with cash since a young age. So thats how I ended up knowing someone who owned a house at 21. Not that they never got help along the way.
counterman Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I don't think it's weird at all. One of my friends show is 5'4" dated a girl who was 5'7" (she was taller than him!). I like it when girls don't care about 'feeling safe' and needs her guy to be at least 4" taller than her. A girl was dating one of my friends who is 6'. Everytime she spoke about she used the word 'tall', for e.g., "oh my tall boyfriend is so great". Basically, she was always going to go out with him no matter what his personality was like because he's... tall. He broke up with her though, probably realised she was just using him to show off in front of her friends and family. Then, there are girls like Sophie Dahl who don't care about height. She's 5'11" and is married to Jamie Cullum who's 5'5". I've met girls taller than me who wanted to date me and I thought that was pretty cool. They didn't think about "oh, I'm going to tower over him if I wear my heels. It'll look weird in front of my friends and other strangers" or "If I tower over him, I'm going to feel like the man". If it were me personally, I would go meet other girls who wouldn't care about my height and if he was asking for my advice on what he should do in regards to the girl he's dating feeling weird about his height, I would say dump her and date other girls. If he doesn't 'measure up' to what you require, then let him go. Clearly you feel strongly about this enough to start a thread asking what others think. It's not something you can simply get over and many people don't want to get over the whole height thing. A lot, and I've seen A LOT, of girls let go of truly wonderful guys just because they were an inch shorter than what the girls wanted them to be. They're loss.
mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 no just no GI Joe then ? j/k I disagree as I've met and know plenty of kids who not only know what it takes but actually contribute to making the ends meet. You've met kids that know how to manage a bank account, separate bills to coincide with pay days, manage a check book, consolidate credit card payments, give relationship advice etc ? I'm not doubting that kids aren't smart but to believe they know the intricate details of owning,maintaining a house and sustaining is pretty far fetched. What I really want to ask is do you really feel that from your current age until you reach 50 that you will cease to obtain new experience/wisdom in addition to what you currently obtain or do you feel like you've already obtained as much as you will and will not gain anymore wisdom ? From your prior posts I get the feeling that you believe that you already have the wisdom and nothing more is really going to change, am I right ?
kaylan Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Yeah considering I own a house & car, have a career, have 2 degrees, traveled the world, volunteered loads, have a huge social circle, and know loads of people I have plenty of experiences to me. I've even met quite a few 30s-40s year olds that I've had more experiences than. Age doesn't mean experience or wisdom as plenty people exist not live. It tends to mean more of a chance at getting such things. My supposed know-it-all-ness comes from my belief in myself and doubt that my perceptions will do as others say. Or my notion that people have pretty similar natures and personality doesn't tend to differ much. Quite interesting I think know-it-all would suit you with your presumptions about me, presuming to know more about myself than I do, what will happen to me and what I'll do. So wisdom in age means nothing? Thats basically what you are saying. You havent really lived life yet. Having experiences in your young life does not equal the wisdom and experiences older folks have gained over their longer lives...get it? Theres experiences in life, and then theres life experience. You feel me?
mixwell Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 There is NO way you can obtain life experiences without... well... experiencing life and at 21 she has a lot of life to experience as do all of us 20 something yr olds 1
EmpoweredWoman Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Stop bothering udolipixie for her "height preference". The arrogance of that bitch alone makes her hideous, she thinks she knows it all at 20 because she has "traveled the world" (IE whored it up in Ibiza). Just another example of a woman whose never been put in her place. Hopefully one day one of those tall guys she worships will smack some sense into the cunt, then she'll go crawling back to one of the amazing guys she rejected for being 5'9. But by then, she'll be too old for anyone to want.
PlumPrincess Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Piggy bank. I never had much use for money as a child or teenager. Pageant, modeling, baby sitting, birthday, holiday, reunion, graduation, allowance, bartender in college money all adds up. Ok, then you were lucky you had rich parents. That's not an accomplishment. Sorry.
udolipixie Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 So wisdom in age means nothing? Thats basically what you are saying. Thrice what I said isn't what you interpreted. Do tell how you got this interpretation from this: Age doesn't mean experience or wisdom as plenty people exist not live. It tends to mean more of a chance at getting such things. Really where does that say, imply, or suggest wisdom in age means nothing? Or where does anything I say state, imply, or suggest wisdom in age mean nothing? I state age doesn't mean wisdom or experience just a chance at it. I made no claims on the importance or significance. You havent really lived life yet. Having experiences in your young life does not equal the wisdom and experiences older folks have gained over their longer lives...get it? Get it that I know myself and that I highly doubt that this whole you'll mature/wisdom/change bit applies to me. Recall: I also know myself I'm pretty stagnant. I also got this mature and change bit from others: in middle school- never happened. in high school- never happened. in college- never happened. Quite interesting that it came from outsiders who didn't know me. Based on my knowledge of myself and my experiences I highly doubt that this whole mature and grow bit applies to me in the way most people tend to think it applies to them. As the whole mature/grow is essentially to me being comfortable in your own skin and knowing who you are and what you want. Something I've had since 6. Theres experiences in life, and then theres life experience. You feel me? There's also young people who have had life experiences and people who know themselves well enough to know whether their perceptions will change or not. Not that hard of a reach.
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