How important is height in a man?

[WhyWontYouBe]

@ OP: aren't you the slut bitch who had a bf who drank he own sperm from your v@gina? and you got off from it ????? or the weird slut who sleep with men at random than come qq at yourself ??!?!?!?!?!?

i think you also had a famous pic of yourself here with sperm all over your face, maybe i can find it!!11!!!

you should tell your new bf hassan of this.

[udolipixie]

Im saying you are overestimating your ability to pin down height inch by inch.

My experiences have that I haven't estimated in a way unfavorable to me aka he being shorter than I want.

 

I dont buy that for one second, but whatever you say.

Okay then.

 

Ok....and? Not every shoe or boot is made equal. You wouldnt always be able to accurately pin down someones height.

The and being I take that into consideration when determining height.

 

Im pretty sure youve been attracted to guys who were actually an inch shorter than your 5'10 cut off and you didnt know it.]/QUOTE]

Yeah and that attraction was a meh.

 

Again...how could you tell? Im 5'9 myself...and without telling you, Im sure youd guess wrong because Im slim and have good posture and most people incorrectly guess my height.

I know my height and know how to comparatively measure. Not that difficult for me.

 

I doubt I'd guess wrong in the way of thinking you're taller than you actually are.

 

Youre so good at this that you automatically can go "ewww hes 5'9 ...gross"? Reeeally?

More like often times it's already a meh I don't even need to do the height bit.

It's like when a guy sees a gal with a face you'd pass up don't really need to focus on why he'd pass it up it's just not attractive to him.

 

Even if the guy has a great face and a perfect body, youd be able to pin down his height and dismiss him solely on that? I find that laughably hard to believe.

Yes.

 

The attraction would be a meh due to the height.

 

As well as a guy with a great face and perfect body at the height I want or above it isn't that difficult to find.

 

5'10'' is the average height in my country so average is fairly common.

 

For the great face/perfect body I have dated and am dating plenty of guys with great faces and perfect bodies or almost perfect bodies who are the height I want. There's plenty more of them for me.

 

As I stated before to me it's like the guy who doesn't care about the compatibility and how long they get along if she's obese as he's not into the heavy set no matter how pretty her face may be.

 

But all shoes are different...thats my point...and its not just the heel, but also the insoles that affect height and you cant see the insoles...so how come youre such a good judge of someones natural height?

Probably because most guys are pretty typical in their dressing.

 

I mean come on now. Im telling you that given shoes and differences in posture, you wouldnt be able to tell that inch difference. The same way no one could detect a 3 lb difference in a person. You give yourself way too much credit. Lets try and be somewhat realistic here.

I don't give myself too much credit as I'm stating I've never mistook a guy's height for more than it is. That is realistic as my experiences have shown that.

 

What wouldn't be realistic to me is getting the height exactly every time or most of the time. Nowhere did I state that.

[somedude81]

I'm not going to bother reading all the posts in this thread.

 

All I want to say, is that what would make my life and those of ever other short guy easier, is if women were just willing to date men their height or a couple of inches taller. I'm not asking women to date men shorter than them because I'd have more luck pulling alligator teeth with my hands.

 

So next time a guy is around you height, please don't think of him as short and atomically write him off. Just give the guy a chance, you may be surprised.

[mixwell]

Go heal your fragile ego. Yes another young woman you will never meet is rejecting some guy who isn't you for what she thinks is height. Oh the humanity.

 

You know a girl once touched my arm and reeled back in repulsion. She was so grossed out that I'm hairy. I seriously found it funny and didn't care. I realize a lot of girls reject short guys for being short. I also know that a lot of girls date, fck, and marry short guys. Please get over the fact that there are women out there who don't like short guys.

 

To the women that don't like short guys you are perfectly entitled to be attracted to what ever you want. You arn't doing yourself any favors by rejecting some one you like because they happen to be a few inches too short or what ever. You also arn't doing yourself any favors if you date a guy you are unattracted to.

 

Seriously, different strokes for different folks. If you don't like someone you don't like them for whatever your reasoning is.. I've met a lot of girls who don't like hairy guys or fat guys and yet being both fat and hairy I've some how pulled some of the cutest chicks that actually like me and my hairy self. I always tell them that sex with me is like Fking a teddy bear and they always seem to get a good chuckle out of it.

[mixwell]

I'm not going to bother reading all the posts in this thread.

 

All I want to say, is that what would make my life and those of ever other short guy easier, is if women were just willing to date men their height or a couple of inches taller. I'm not asking women to date men shorter than them because I'd have more luck pulling alligator teeth with my hands.

 

So next time a guy is around you height, please don't think of him as short and atomically write him off. Just give the guy a chance, you may be surprised.

 

No offense but I am sure a chick you don't know could give two Fk's about what would make your life easier and you sound kind of pathetic by asking them to give you a chance. You should value yourself more than having a chick "give you a chance" You need to go in there and rip it off with confidence bro..

[udolipixie]

All I want to say, is that what would make my life and those of ever other short guy easier, is if women were just willing to date men their height or a couple of inches taller.

Some women are willing to date men their height or a couple inches shorter.

 

It seems that the amount of women willing to do so aren't what you'd like.

 

I think life would be a lot easier for people who feel they don't fit into the general taste if others started doling them out sex/relationships. Such as unattractive gals lives may be easier if more men were willing to date them. Or

 

No one is obligated to be interested in you romantically/sexually or dole out relationship or sex to make your life easier.

 

So next time a guy is around you height, please don't think of him as short and atomically write him off. Just give the guy a chance, you may be surprised.

So next time you see a gal you aren't attracted to and would automatically write off- too skinny, too fat, unattractive face/body- will give her a chance and approach her asking her out or do you already do so?

 

Do you give chances to see if you may be surprised to those you have no to low attraction for and would otherwise automatically write off because of your preferences, standards, and/or requirements?

[Jane2011]

I'm not going to bother reading all the posts in this thread.

 

All I want to say, is that what would make my life and those of ever other short guy easier, is if women were just willing to date men their height or a couple of inches taller. I'm not asking women to date men shorter than them because I'd have more luck pulling alligator teeth with my hands.

 

So next time a guy is around you height, please don't think of him as short and atomically write him off. Just give the guy a chance, you may be surprised.

 

It's nice you've calmed down slightly.

 

But women aren't going to date a guy their height or just two inches taller just because you politely request it.

 

At any rate, if I date a guy two inches taller than me (5'2"), most likely he'll be about 13 or 14. Maybe even 12.

[kaylan]

My experiences have that I haven't estimated in a way unfavorable to me aka he being shorter than I want.

Okay then.

The and being I take that into consideration when determining height.

 

Yeah and that attraction was a meh.

I looked up an old thread where you talk about this. In that thread you said if a 5'9 guy had everything you wanted in a guy, thatd youd date him.

 

And in that same thread you incorrectly stated and cited figures about average American height, so excuse me for doubting your height estimate abilities.

I know my height and know how to comparatively measure. Not that difficult for me.

 

I doubt I'd guess wrong in the way of thinking you're taller than you actually are.

Ok then, but unless you and I are barefoot, and unless most people you come across have impecable posture like I do, how could you correctly guess my height? How could you guess my natural height correctly if I am in shoes ? Do you know how big the insole or heel actually is?

 

More like often times it's already a meh I don't even need to do the height bit.

It's like when a guy sees a gal with a face you'd pass up don't really need to focus on why he'd pass it up it's just not attractive to him.

 

Yes.

 

The attraction would be a meh due to the height.

 

As well as a guy with a great face and perfect body at the height I want or above it isn't that difficult to find.

You cannot compare faces and height. Like I said, with shoe and posture differences, you wouldnt be able to accurately guess everyones height.

 

And heres the quotes from that thread:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/294910-top-5-physical-turn-offs-opposite-sex-7.html

So if u met a good guy you liked and he was only 5'9 would you not date him because of an inch?

Define this 'good guy' that I 'like' does he fill all the rest of my top 5 & does he fill every other requirement/standard/wish/hope I have?

 

If not then yes I'd pass on him because there's always more 5'10'' guys around. It is the average.

So did you position change from back then? Now all of a sudden youd pass up the perfect guy for you because of one inch? I find it hard to believe you would and hard to believe youd really be able to tell his height right away.

 

 

5'10'' is the average height in my country so average is fairly common.

But with shoes and differences in posture, 5'10 people can appear shorter or taller. Thats my whole point. You can always tell.

For the great face/perfect body I have dated and am dating plenty of guys with great faces and perfect bodies or almost perfect bodies who are the height I want. There's plenty more of them for me.

What about the perfect personality. Thats the hardest thing to find and the most important. So is chemistry.

 

Theres tons of attractive and fit women out there I could date, but its hard finding the chick with the right personality and who clicks with me in a way Ill want to date her long term. So unless theres an abundance of guys with great personalities, and the looks, and the height...you aint kidding no one here....because its rare to find that right personality.

As I stated before to me it's like the guy who doesn't care about the compatibility and how long they get along if she's obese as he's not into the heavy set no matter how pretty her face may be.

Dude...youre really reaching with your comparisons. Settling for an obese person is not the same as dating someone an inch under your ideal. Dating someone 5 pounds heavier than your ideal would be an accurate comparison, in which case its a minor difference.

 

If you settled for a guy who was 5'3, then I would say the obese thing was a good comparison.

Probably because most guys are pretty typical in their dressing.

You only think youre a good judge of height. Im fairly certain youve been wrong before, and/or that a guy let you guess wrong and didnt say anything because he knows women like you have a bias about height.

 

Unless you know the exact heel and insole heights in all the types of shoes guys where, Im not inclined to believe you always guess height correctly down to the inch.

I don't give myself too much credit as I'm stating I've never mistook a guy's height for more than it is. That is realistic as my experiences have shown that.

 

What wouldn't be realistic to me is getting the height exactly every time or most of the time. Nowhere did I state that.

You never said that? Omg...this whole conversation youve been trying to prove to me that its impossible for you to guess incorrectly on height, and that youd know the difference in one inch...that right there is you basically saying youd never get wrong. Edited March 25, 2012 by kaylan

[somedude81]

Some women are willing to date men their height or a couple inches shorter.

The problem is that it's only some women. It should be most women. But I know that life's not fair and so on.

It seems that the amount of women willing to do so aren't what you'd like.

I have no idea the only way to really know if a woman is willing to date short men, is if she's actually dated them. It has nothing to do with what she looks like.

So next time you see a gal you aren't attracted to and would automatically write off- too skinny, too fat, unattractive face/body- will give her a chance and approach her asking her out or do you already do so?

And how would I know that she wouldn't reject me? Most women don't have dating troubles no matter that they look.

 

Actual ugly girls, are extremely rare. The one girl on this forum who keeps calling herself ugly is far from it.

 

Nobody would turn down a too skinny girl unless she looks actually unhealthy. And I believe there is nothing wrong with turning down somebody because they appear unhealthy, either too skinny or too fat.

 

Do you give chances to see if you may be surprised to those you have no to low attraction for and would otherwise automatically write off because of your preferences, standards, and/or requirements?

Giving chances to, doesn't really apply to me because women don't come on to me. But I've fallen for quite a few girls who were not my type at all.

 

I'd give most anybody a chance as long as she had a healthy weight and wasn't completely ugly.

It's nice you've calmed down slightly.

 

But women aren't going to date a guy their height or just two inches taller just because you politely request it.

 

At any rate, if I date a guy two inches taller than me (5'2"), most likely he'll be about 13 or 14. Maybe even 12.

What if he was a full grown man?

 

Who would you expect him to date?

 

Either way, men that height are very rare. The average woman is 5'4 and I really don't see any reasons why women that height can't date men a few inches taller than they are.

[udolipixie]

I looked up an old thread where you talk about this. In that thread you said if a 5'9 guy had everything you wanted in a guy, thatd youd date him.

In that thread I stated being under 5'10'' is one of my top 5 turnoffs.

 

Date does not equal I'd be attracted to him.

 

Nowhere does that state I'd be attracted to him, want to have sex with him, or even pursue a relationship. I'd date him as he'd be a one wonder (hitting every note but one) but that would be to amuse/entertain myself.

 

In that thread I stated I wanted average height which for my country is 5'10'' and at the conclusion of the thread realizing that the cited sources were wrong since I'm above average height in women I can ask for above average height. Nothing about considering below 5'10'' guys for anything except dating if they were one wonders.

 

And in that same thread you incorrectly stated and cited figures about average American height, so excuse me for doubting your height estimate abilities.

I incorrectly stated and cited figures about average American woman's height.

 

In that case I was having someone else do the measuring and in this case I'm doing the measuring.

 

As for doubting my height estimate abilities you did that long before I had incorrectly cited a source stating the average American womans height.

 

Ok then, but unless you and I are barefoot, and unless most people you come across have impecable posture like I do, how could you correctly guess my height? How could you guess my natural height correctly if I am in shoes ? Do you know how big the insole or heel actually is?

I could correctly guess if you were average height or not the exact measurement unrealistic.

 

Recall: "I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

 

That means I wouldn't be likely to pin down your exact height but I certainly wouldn't measure you more than you are.

 

You cannot compare faces and height. Like I said, with shoe and posture differences, you wouldnt be able to accurately guess everyones height.

I can compare attraction.

 

To me there is little to no attraction if you're below average height.

 

Like I said "I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

 

 

So did you position change from back then?

Now all of a sudden youd pass up the perfect guy for you because of one inch?

That's not switching positions.

 

I'd said I'd date a 5'9'' guy who was perfect in every way except that one. Nothing about being attracted to him or pursuing a relationship with him.

 

Being under 5'10'' was still my turn off in that thread and in fact at the contusion of the thread I was yay since being above average height I could ask for above average height guys.

 

What you're talking about is passing up a great face/great height short guy and attraction.

 

He's not perfect like in that thread he just has a great face/perfect body.

 

We're talking about attraction not just dating like in that thread.

 

 

But with shoes and differences in posture, 5'10 people can appear shorter or taller. Thats my whole point. You can always tell.

My point is that I take that into consideration and that "I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

It's been working for me so far.

 

What about the perfect personality. Thats the hardest thing to find and the most important. So is chemistry.

Baseline people tend to have pretty similar natures so personality doesn't really differ much to me especially in guys.

 

Chemistry is physical for me so...

 

Theres tons of attractive and fit women out there I could date, but its hard finding the chick with the right personality and who clicks with me in a way Ill want to date her long term. So unless theres an abundance of guys with great personalities, and the looks, and the height...you aint kidding no one here....because its rare to find that right personality.

Not that hard for me to find hotties I can amuse/entertain myself with.

I've always been pretty lucky in life often with very little effort on my part.

 

As for this right personality to me cutting down to it the nature of people tend to be the same so personality doesn't really vary much significantly.

 

 

Dude...youre really reaching with your comparisons. Settling for an obese person is not the same as dating someone an inch under your ideal. Dating someone 5 pounds heavier than your ideal would be an accurate comparison, in which case its a minor difference.

it is to me if it's about attraction.

 

I have low to no attraction for below average height guys. No different than a guy having low to no attraction for obese gals.

 

It's not about ideal it's about attraction.

 

 

If you settled for a guy who was 5'3, then I would say the obese thing was a good comparison.

I'd be settling if I took a 5'9'' guy as settling to me means negating your attraction.

 

 

You only think youre a good judge of height. Im fairly certain youve been wrong before, and/or that a guy let you guess wrong and didnt say anything because he knows women like you have a bias about height.

 

Unless you know the exact heel and insole heights in all the types of shoes guys where, Im not inclined to believe you always guess height correctly down to the inch.

You never said that? Omg...this whole conversation youve been trying to prove to me that its impossible for you to guess incorrectly on height, and that youd know the difference in one inch...that right there is you basically saying youd never get wrong.

[kaylan]

Re read and digest my posts because youre obviously not getting it and were just repeating ourselves. You wouldnt be able to tell if I was really average height or not because shoes and posture change things.

 

And lol...personality doesnt differ much in guys? Youre only like 19/20 right? Because Id only expect a kid to say something like that. I think all people truly on a quest to find a long term partner knows personalities are very unique and do vary. You must not be very perceptive if you think most people are the same.

 

And only a kid has the mindset of effortlessly finding hotties to play with

 

But suit yourself. Meh

Edited March 25, 2012 by kaylan

[udolipixie]

I looked up an old thread where you talk about this. In that thread you said if a 5'9 guy had everything you wanted in a guy, thatd youd date him.

In that thread I stated being under 5'10'' is one of my top 5 turnoffs.

I never changed that position.

 

Date does not equal I'd be attracted to him.

 

Nowhere do I state I'd be attracted to him, want to have sex with him, or even pursue a relationship. I'd date him as he'd be a one wonder (hitting every note but one) but that would be to amuse/entertain myself.

 

In that thread I stated I wanted average height which for my country is 5'10'' and at the conclusion of the thread realizing that the cited sources were wrong since I'm above average height in women I can ask for above average height. Nothing about considering below 5'10'' guys for anything except dating if they were one wonders.

 

And in that same thread you incorrectly stated and cited figures about average American height, so excuse me for doubting your height estimate abilities.

I incorrectly stated and cited figures about average American woman's height.

 

In that case I was having someone else do the measuring and in this case I'm doing the measuring.

 

As for doubting my height estimate abilities you did that long before I had incorrectly cited a source stating the average American womans height.

 

Ok then, but unless you and I are barefoot, and unless most people you come across have impecable posture like I do, how could you correctly guess my height? How could you guess my natural height correctly if I am in shoes ? Do you know how big the insole or heel actually is?

I could correctly guess if you were at least average height. I haven't been wrong thus far.

 

You cannot compare faces and height. Like I said, with shoe and posture differences, you wouldnt be able to accurately guess everyones height.

I can compare attraction.

 

To me there is little to no attraction if you're below average height.

 

Like I said "I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

 

 

So did you position change from back then?

Now all of a sudden youd pass up the perfect guy for you because of one inch?

No switching positions.

 

I'd said I'd date a 5'9'' guy who was perfect in every way except that one. Nothing about being attracted to him, wanting to have sex with him, having sex with him, or pursuing a relationship with him.

 

Being under 5'10'' was still my turn off in that thread and in fact at the conclusion of the thread I was yay since being above average height I could ask for above average height guys.

 

What you're talking about is passing up a great face/great height short guy and attraction.

 

He's not perfect like in that thread.

 

We're talking about attraction.

 

Not just dating like in that thread.

 

But with shoes and differences in posture, 5'10 people can appear shorter or taller. Thats my whole point. You can always tell.

My point is that I take that into consideration and that I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is in a way that's unfavorable to me.

That means I've never guessed a guy to be average height when he wasn't.

 

What about the perfect personality. Thats the hardest thing to find and the most important. So is chemistry.

To me baseline people tend to have pretty similar natures so personality doesn't really differ much to me especially in guys.

 

Chemistry is physical for me so...

 

Theres tons of attractive and fit women out there I could date, but its hard finding the chick with the right personality and who clicks with me in a way Ill want to date her long term. So unless theres an abundance of guys with great personalities, and the looks, and the height...you aint kidding no one here....because its rare to find that right personality.

Not that hard for me to find hotties I can amuse/entertain myself with.

 

As for this right personality to me cutting down to it the nature of people tend to be the same so personality doesn't really vary much significantly.

 

 

Dude...youre really reaching with your comparisons. Settling for an obese person is not the same as dating someone an inch under your ideal. Dating someone 5 pounds heavier than your ideal would be an accurate comparison, in which case its a minor difference.

It's the same to me as it's talking about attraction.

 

I have low to no attraction for below average height guys. No different than a guy having low to no attraction for obese gals.

 

It's not about ideal it's about attraction.

 

If you settled for a guy who was 5'3, then I would say the obese thing was a good comparison.

I'd be settling if I took a 5'9'' guy as settling to me means negating attraction.

 

You only think youre a good judge of height. Im fairly certain youve been wrong before, and/or that a guy let you guess wrong and didnt say anything because he knows women like you have a bias about height.

I think I don't mistake a guy's height to be more than it is in a unfavorable way to me.

 

I think going by the confirmations that guys I've deem average height or above average height have been correct that I'm pretty good in judging height that's attractive to me.

 

Unless you know the exact heel and insole heights in all the types of shoes guys where, Im not inclined to believe you always guess height correctly down to the inch.

Nowhere did I state I did such a thing.

 

I stated:

"I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

"My experiences have that I haven't estimated in a way unfavorable to me aka he being shorter than I want."

 

 

You never said that? Omg...this whole conversation youve been trying to prove to me that its impossible for you to guess incorrectly on height, and that youd know the difference in one inch...that right there is you basically saying youd never get wrong.

This whole conversation I can comparatively judge a guy's height and that I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than it is in a way that's unfavorable to me.

 

That means I use my height to judge a guy's height and have never judge a guy to be average height or above average height when he wasn't.

 

What you interpret is not what I said.

[Jane2011]

What if he was a full grown man?

 

Who would you expect him to date?

 

Either way, men that height are very rare. The average woman is 5'4 and I really don't see any reasons why women that height can't date men a few inches taller than they are.

 

I've been attracted to a guy who's 5'3". One of my brother's friends was that height, and I liked him.

 

Being attracted to a guy isn't just his height, though. Even if I'm willing to date adult males who are 5'2" (a rarity in the first place), any given guy presented to me who's 5'2" may or may not be attractive to me based on other factors. I may or may not like his face. I may or may not like his personality. I may or may not like his outlook on life. So I'm not going to date any man who's 5'2" just out of sympathy for his height. I'll date a 5'2" guy if I'm attracted to one.

[kaylan]

Lastly, 5'9 is so similar to 5'10 that you wouldnt know the difference based on shoes and posture. Posture varies from person to person.

 

I doubt you could tell the difference and thus tell yourself to be attracted to the guy or not.

[joystickd]

In that thread I stated being under 5'10'' is one of my top 5 turnoffs.

I never changed that position.

 

Date does not equal I'd be attracted to him.

 

Nowhere do I state I'd be attracted to him, want to have sex with him, or even pursue a relationship. I'd date him as he'd be a one wonder (hitting every note but one) but that would be to amuse/entertain myself.

 

In that thread I stated I wanted average height which for my country is 5'10'' and at the conclusion of the thread realizing that the cited sources were wrong since I'm above average height in women I can ask for above average height. Nothing about considering below 5'10'' guys for anything except dating if they were one wonders.

 

 

I incorrectly stated and cited figures about average American woman's height.

 

In that case I was having someone else do the measuring and in this case I'm doing the measuring.

 

As for doubting my height estimate abilities you did that long before I had incorrectly cited a source stating the average American womans height.

 

 

I could correctly guess if you were at least average height. I haven't been wrong thus far.

 

 

I can compare attraction.

 

To me there is little to no attraction if you're below average height.

 

Like I said "I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

 

 

 

No switching positions.

 

I'd said I'd date a 5'9'' guy who was perfect in every way except that one. Nothing about being attracted to him, wanting to have sex with him, having sex with him, or pursuing a relationship with him.

 

Being under 5'10'' was still my turn off in that thread and in fact at the conclusion of the thread I was yay since being above average height I could ask for above average height guys.

 

What you're talking about is passing up a great face/great height short guy and attraction.

 

He's not perfect like in that thread.

 

We're talking about attraction.

 

Not just dating like in that thread.

 

 

My point is that I take that into consideration and that I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is in a way that's unfavorable to me.

That means I've never guessed a guy to be average height when he wasn't.

 

 

To me baseline people tend to have pretty similar natures so personality doesn't really differ much to me especially in guys.

 

Chemistry is physical for me so...

 

 

Not that hard for me to find hotties I can amuse/entertain myself with.

 

As for this right personality to me cutting down to it the nature of people tend to be the same so personality doesn't really vary much significantly.

 

 

 

It's the same to me as it's talking about attraction.

 

I have low to no attraction for below average height guys. No different than a guy having low to no attraction for obese gals.

 

It's not about ideal it's about attraction.

 

 

I'd be settling if I took a 5'9'' guy as settling to me means negating attraction.

 

 

I think I don't mistake a guy's height to be more than it is in a unfavorable way to me.

 

I think going by the confirmations that guys I've deem average height or above average height have been correct that I'm pretty good in judging height that's attractive to me.

 

 

Nowhere did I state I did such a thing.

 

I stated:

"I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than what it is."

"My experiences have that I haven't estimated in a way unfavorable to me aka he being shorter than I want."

 

 

 

This whole conversation I can comparatively judge a guy's height and that I've never mistook a guy's height to be more than it is in a way that's unfavorable to me.

 

That means I use my height to judge a guy's height and have never judge a guy to be average height or above average height when he wasn't.

 

What you interpret is not what I said.

Come on and join everyone else in the real world

[somedude81]

I've been attracted to a guy who's 5'3". One of my brother's friends was that height, and I liked him.

 

Being attracted to a guy isn't just his height, though. Even if I'm willing to date adult males who are 5'2" (a rarity in the first place), any given guy presented to me who's 5'2" may or may not be attractive to me based on other factors. I may or may not like his face. I may or may not like his personality. I may or may not like his outlook on life. So I'm not going to date any man who's 5'2" just out of sympathy for his height. I'll date a 5'2" guy if I'm attracted to one.

I'm mainly talking about women who consider a guy being under 5'10 as one of her top 5 turn-off's; unless she's actually 5'8+ then I'll let her pass. Though she'll still get an angry fist-shacking.

[udolipixie]

@kaylan

If having hotties to play with makes me a kid there needs to be a female version of Peter Pan.

 

You're obviously not getting it.

 

Height is a factor of attraction to me so my attraction to below average height guys are ugh or meh.

 

Only thing I could possibly digest from your post is operating the way you seem to want me to having the attraction you deem appropriate.

 

Personality doesn't differ much in people especially guys is what I stated.

 

Age makes very little difference until 50s in my experiences.

 

Because Id only expect a kid to say something like that. I think all people truly on a quest to find a long term partner knows personalities are very unique and do vary. You must not be very perceptive if you think most people are the same.

I find it ironic that you state this right before stating I'm not very perceptive if I think most people are the same.

 

Ever considered that not all people are on that quest? Some people have no interest in a partner just like some people have no interest in relationships or sex.

[Dust]

I'm mainly talking about women who consider a guy being under 5'10 as one of her top 5 turn-off's; unless she's actually 5'8+ then I'll let her pass. Though she'll still get an angry fist-shacking.

 

5'8+ girls of the world do you hear that... and yet you have problems with women who have height cut offs... C'mon man its yourself you have the problem with. Enough you're a guy deserving of an oportunity for the things you want. Stop caging yourself.

[udolipixie]

Lastly, 5'9 is so similar to 5'10 that you wouldnt know the difference based on shoes and posture. Posture varies from person to person.

I'm quite aware of all the things that could make a person's height vary as I take that into consideration.

 

Like I stated I've never measured a guy's height to be more than it is in a way that was unfavorable to me.

 

I doubt you could tell the difference and thus tell yourself to be attracted to the guy or not.

As I stated often times I don't need to tell myself I just am not attracted it just happens.

[kaylan]

@kaylan

If having hotties to play with makes me a kid there needs to be a female version of Peter Pan.

No...what makes you a kid is your attitude and stated age based on your posts Ive read.

 

You're obviously not getting it.

 

Height is a factor of attraction to me so my attraction to below average height guys are ugh or meh.

Omg...are you dense girl?

 

I know height is a factor in attraction...and Im not disputing that. What i am saying is that you cant always tell if someone you think is average height, is actually of that height. They can be shorter or taller in reality due to shoes and posture.

 

How many times must I repeat that before you understand? Therefore its possible for you to be attracted to a 5'9 guy because you assumed he was 5'10. And also, theres such little difference in that one inch, that you could tell.

 

If you think you could tell, then you are in fact saying you never get heights wrong...which I remember you clearly saying before that you werent making that assumption.

 

Only thing I could possibly digest from your post is operating the way you seem to want me to having the attraction you deem appropriate.

 

Personality doesn't differ much in people especially guys is what I stated.

 

Age makes very little difference until 50s in my experiences.

I dont care what attraction you have. Its not about that. I also have no opinion about whats appropriate or not.

 

How old are you? Really? because either you lied in your earlier posts on this site... or you really are a kid who think they know it all. Personalities arent much different in people? Wow...you must have no life experience if you think people are all the same until they hit 50....you are too much girl.

 

I find it ironic that you state this right before stating I'm not very perceptive if I think most people are the same.

 

Ever considered that not all people are on that quest? Some people have no interest in a partner just like some people have no interest in relationships or sex.

Even if you arent on that quest...anyone with common sense knows that personalities are unique and variable. Its ignorant and naive to believe this isnt true. Simply look out unto the world. Does Kobe Bryant have the same personality as Lionel Messi? Lets be serious here

[somedude81]

5'8+ girls of the world do you hear that... and yet you have problems with women who have height cut offs...

What are you even talking about?

 

The only thing I said is that I would grudgingly accept a 5'8+ woman being turned off by men under 5'10.

[Dust]

What are you even talking about?

 

The only thing I said is that I would grudgingly accept a 5'8+ woman being turned off by men under 5'10.

 

You know that last post was like a riddle and I answer wrong. The msg I wrote still stands.

 

Though I read it to mean you ern't into taller women which you are entitled to... its just with all the posts on the subject it rubbed me the wrong way.

 

So I read it wrong. Still your attitude toward height is negative and does you know good even if the reality is height is an advantage. Doesn't mean its an advantage with the girl you get.

[mixwell]

Baseline people tend to have pretty similar natures so personality doesn't really differ much to me especially in guys.

 

Wouldn't you ideally prefer to meet a guy who wasn't baseline though ? As a male there is nothing worse than a typical girl, I understand that human nature is very similar but I have dated females that were cool as hell and I have dated females that were as dull and boring as a log. I'm not sure if you were generalizing MOST males or saying that ALL males are similar and mostly the same.

 

Personalities can be drastically different from person to person but I am not sure if you meant typical or all so sorry if I am reading your post incorrectly. I personally find myself FAR from most typical guys FWIW but I do agree that mostly people tend to have the same natural characteristics.

[udolipixie]

No...what makes you a kid is your attitude and stated age based on your posts Ive read.

My attitude of what:

• having no to low attraction for guys that have a turn off to me
  
• considering dating a one wonder guy (perfect in every way but one) I'm not attracted to just for amusement/entertainment
  

 

I know height is a factor in attraction...and Im not disputing that. What i am saying is that you cant always tell if someone you think is average height, is actually of that height. They can be shorter or taller in reality due to shoes and posture.

I'm saying I take those factors in to consideration and thus far have never been incorrect in thinking a guy who is average height is at least average height.

 

I've repeatedly stated that I take those things into consideration.

 

How many times must I repeat that before you understand?

I understand that you don't believe that I can correctly guess if a guy is at least average height.

 

Not sure why else you place that question other than to companion your omg are you dense snide insult.

 

I also understand that you've dismissed and disbelieve that I haven't been wrong in determining if a guy is at least of average height.

 

Therefore its possible for you to be attracted to a 5'9 guy because you assumed he was 5'10. And also, theres such little difference in that one inch, that you could tell.

I stated it's possible for me to have an attraction to a below average height guy and that attraction would be ugh or meh.

 

I haven't been wrong thus far.

 

 

If you think you could tell, then you are in fact saying you never get heights wrong...which I remember you clearly saying before that you werent making that assumption.

I'm saying that I never guess a guy's height to be more than it is in a way what's unfavorable to me.

 

That means I never get a guy's height wrong in a way that's unfavorable to me.

 

Unfavorable would be less than 5'10'' that's not saying I never get height wrong that's saying that I never guess a height to be 5'10'' when it's not. I've guessed guys to be 6'2'' and they were 6'4''.

 

 

How old are you? Really? because either you lied in your earlier posts on this site... or you really are a kid who think they know it all.

Where is this earlier post that I have lied about my age on? Do note a post saying I'm 20 is not a lie as people tend to have birthdays.

 

 

Personalities arent much different in people? Wow...you must have no life experience if you think people are all the same until they hit 50....you are too much girl.

I have plenty of life experience and it's shown me that baseline people's nature tends to be pretty similar so personality doesn't really make a difference or vary much.

 

 

Even if you arent on that quest...anyone with common sense knows that personalities are unique and variable. Its ignorant and naive to believe this isnt true. Simply look out unto the world. Does Kobe Bryant have the same personality as Lionel Messi? Lets be serious here

Personalities aren't that unique or variable to me baseline the nature is pretty similar so personality doesn't differ as much as people would like to believe in that whole everyone is a unique snowflake bit. There are few unique personalties to me just as there are few great people who changed society to me.

[somedude81]

You know that last post was like a riddle and I answer wrong. The msg I wrote still stands.

 

Though I read it to mean you ern't into taller women which you are entitled to... its just with all the posts on the subject it rubbed me the wrong way.

 

So I read it wrong. Still your attitude toward height is negative and does you know good even if the reality is height is an advantage. Doesn't mean its an advantage with the girl you get.

Yeah that's not what I meant at all.

 

The girl that I was chasing for so long is 5'8. God I wish she was shorter or I was taller, whatever needed to happen to make the pairing work.

 

It doesn't have anything to do with my attitude. I still go after the girls I want. And they aren't turning me down because I don't like me height, unless they were psychic.