mike588 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 But everything reminds me of him! Hey..we all feel/felt that way but just give it more time. I felt the same way for a long time... it's been 7 months now and it doesn't bother me anymore. You''ll get there..it's a matter of re-adjusting.
cflowers32 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Well that's improvement there!!! So congrats. I totally get it though, it's so rough sometimes. The music, places you ate at, some quickflash back, a show you watched. You're going to do this!!! Keep hanging in there. *BIG HUG*
Author mymission Posted March 25, 2012 Author Posted March 25, 2012 Yeah I suppose I'm lucky in a way because a lot of our memories were made in his home city cos I lived there with him. He has been to my parents (where I'm living now) a few times though. I went to a pub with my family tonight and I remembered when he came here after I graduated from Uni. I just associate him with everything. And today I went to his best friends fiance's babyshower in his home city and a lot of memories came floodin back. I miss him.
M2155 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Stay strong. It happens. My ex drives a very common model of car that I'd pass on the road 19 times a day and it always gave me a pang and reminded me of him. I remember that specifically cause I couldnt avoid it! But now I feel great when I see it and don't really think of him, when I do, it's not even a feeling anymore. I still miss some of theming things I had with my ex, we had a lot of potential. But there really are other fish in the sea when the time is right. Give yourself a break, we all go through something like this at one point or another. You will get better one day at a time if you just keep the desire to move past this and be patient with your heart. It will heal;) 1
ThatDudeXO Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 I know exactly what you mean. My heart sinks when I have a reminder of my ex, lets yourself feel down shortly then put your head up and go on with life with a smiiiileee! We're in similar stages, the crying has stopped, not so much devastating pain but we have little memories which creep up and hurt us. We now need to learn to appreciate these memories and thank our exes for giving us such precious moments instead of wallowing because they're gone because we will have much more precious memories in the future with lovelier and more suitable partners! 1
christine393 Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 Stay strong. It happens. My ex drives a very common model of car that I'd pass on the road 19 times a day and it always gave me a pang and reminded me of him. I remember that specifically cause I couldnt avoid it! But now I feel great when I see it and don't really think of him, when I do, it's not even a feeling anymore. ^ I can totally relate to this! Seeing your exes lovely car drive by EVERYWHERE you go is torture! You never noticed them before.. But you always notice them now! haha 2
jennisfora Posted March 25, 2012 Posted March 25, 2012 yes, every small white truck gives me pain, until i realize it isn't the right make or model, but for a split second every white truck is his.
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