Sophie99 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 My boyfriend of alomost 2 years broke things off. I was really in love with this guy, like, HUGE time. We had been friends for sometime before we got together, and I would do anything for this person, they are so special to me. We had planned into the future and we were both so committed, I thought. Two months on however, he's over it. He's out with other girls, he doesn't even think about us and everything we had. How could this have happened when I'm still in bits?
mike588 Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 My boyfriend of alomost 2 years broke things off. I was really in love with this guy, like, HUGE time. We had been friends for sometime before we got together, and I would do anything for this person, they are so special to me. We had planned into the future and we were both so committed, I thought. Two months on however, he's over it. He's out with other girls, he doesn't even think about us and everything we had. How could this have happened when I'm still in bits? Sounds like he just lost interest in you..he became bored with a/the routine and was looking for something new/excitement. It seems like when things are good...early on in a relationship we talk about a future together....getting married...moving in together..kids etc. then after time passes people become bored...or get in a rut and look for that excitement all over again. That's happened to me more than once..getting dumped for those reasons. So he's out with other girls...how do you know he's not thinking about you?? Let him go...go strict No Contact!! Let him have his fun...there's nothing you can really do. Please don't contact him...I'm sure he knows how you feel and if you keep contacting him letting him know how broken you are and beg..plead..cry wanting to get back together it WILL only push him further away!! Disappear...let him wonder about you...what your doing..if your seeing someone else etc. he may just start to miss you!!
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