HeartOnSleeve Posted March 24, 2012 Posted March 24, 2012 So my BIG time crush has a new girlfriend....BOO. But hey at least I know and now we can be friends and all is great. Yay for taking the plunge and finding out. Thanks for the advice! Guy A is still confusing the hell out of me. After not seeing him for a bit we get together and he tells me that he went from Hot to Cold because of a few things...1. my friend from out of town that he met sucked! TRUE...I agreed actually... but really?! 2. His friends think I look like his ex and they didn't like my friend either. LAME 3. He likes me and doesn't want to get attached since he is going on a trip for 6 months in like SIX MONTHS. I had even called him out on his interest and he said he was afraid of getting serious with me (BS), so I said, cool let's keep it fun and light and the kid can't seem to do that. So then he goes 5 days with NC and I'm like cool, done and done. Then he texts me. How are you? sorry I've been MIA..blah blah blah. Naturally I don't respond and 3 days later another text. "Hate me?", and then another 2 days later "?". I finally a day later said. No why and he said because I hadn't contacted him. Then I respond with the fact that I've been busy (I have a damn life too). For what ever stupid reason part of me wants to keep him around, but tell him not to be such a idiot, and part of me thinks I should just continue to blow him off. Blowing him off is probably the best option I think I know what you guys would say...but that's my update and vent session.
Author HeartOnSleeve Posted March 25, 2012 Author Posted March 25, 2012 Thanks HOAL! I'm beginning to somewhat see the light...first to go was the Special Ops (year) and Guy A is just hanging by a thread but by no means will I wait around again...not a for a year not for 6 months. Lessons have been learned, but I can't help but want to be there for people, support them, and care for them...it's just my nature. Thanks again for your kind encouraging words!
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